My Initial Year in the Cage

I actually wrapped up my first year of being in chastity back on July 9th. I’ve been wanting to work out what my average period of denial was, but honestly have just been too lazy to make a spreadsheet to figure it out. Today’s motivation came from a blog post by Harry Haversackers (you can see it here … ve-it.html) It turns out I shouldn’t have waited so long, there really weren’t that many entries in the calendar that needed to go into the spreadsheet. Total allowed orgasms - 7 Average days between orgasms - 52 Shortest period between orgasms - 2 Longest period between orgasms - 190 If you remove the highest (190) and lowest (2), the average period was 34 days Here is the raw data (in days): 45, 2, 190, 25, 61, 22, 17 The short period was the very first release. That served as an orgasm “honeymoon” as suggested by Sarah Jameson in BCWYWF. We quickly decided that wasn’t for us and switched to releases being just one orgasm for me. I think I might have used more chastity devices during that first year than I had orgasms. CB3000 Mature Metal Jailbird (1 3/8” x 2.5”) Mature Metal Jailbird (1 1/8” x 2.25”) Mature Metal Pet Trap (1 1/8” x 2”) Modified the Pet Trap to have a Jailbird style cage on the end Mature Metal Jailbird (mixed ring sizes: 1 1/8” at the base, 1 1/4” at the end, 2 1/4” length) Kali’s Teeth Bracelet Steelworxx locking cockring Steelworxx Steelheart yes, more devices than orgasms even if you only count the Pet Trap once. It is a little like the mastercard commercial - A year of great sex and a fantasy fulfilled - Priceless Looking back on that first year I have to say it was pretty good. I had all the orgasms I wanted and only two that I didn’t want (the one mentioned above, and another time where I wish my wife had waited a bit longer). Amazing how normal it seems to me now. I went through quite a few devices but each one was a learning experience. The one I wore most often was the smallest jailbird. The one I am wearing currently is the Steelheart and its streak will be the longest soon (it might already be, but I don’t keep track of that). The only device that I never could get quite right was the Pet Trap. It was an amazing device, very compact and comfortable. I just couldn’t keep my penis lined up properly in it and it became a hygiene issue. I also couldn’t wear the KTB for more than a couple of days at a time, but I didn’t expect to be able to; that was mostly for pain play and having something I could wear if my balls got stressed (which happened a few times recently). I am thankful for everyone on this forum, it has really made figuring out how to live in chastity much easier and more fun. I would have never thought of so many of the fun things we do all on my own. Sorry for rambling on, thank you all, -A

My congrats! It's amazing how us chaste males are keenly aware of the time we have been locked. I commented to my spouse/KH about how long it had been since our last release. Her comment was, "who's counting?"

Congrats! We hit our year this week, but we took a couple of months off due to real life problems. I agree with your comments about this form. You guys are what helped me stick with MC, as I had many reservations. It was wonderful to see people from the non-chastity mansion type living it day by day.

> member_7f5b971d37 wrote: My congrats! It's amazing how us chaste males are keenly aware of the time we have been locked. I commented to my spouse/KH about how long it had been since our last release. Her comment was, "who's counting?" I can never remember either, but I know Jnuts keeps track. I often ask him how long it has been when he is pleasing me, kinda rubbing it in a bit I guess:D

Congrats, Atone. Sounds like it's been a great year!

> member_0fe7c9ef96 wrote: > > member_7f5b971d37 wrote: ... "who's counting?" > I can never remember either, but I know Jnuts keeps track. I often ask him how long it has been when he is pleasing me, kinda rubbing it in a bit I guess:D I definitely keep track but only remember in a general sense. If I want to be sure I have to look up the last time I was allowed an orgasm. I would love it if my wife would rub it in by asking how long it has been, that doesn't really interest her though. She does like to point out that she is going to get to cum but I am not; I like that too and will take what I get. Occasionally she teases about how long it is going to be before she allows me an orgasm. That I really, really like; I wish she did that more often. -A

> member_f74d45782a wrote: Congrats, Atone. Sounds like it's been a great year! It has been a great year. Chastity came along at just the right time in our relationship that not only did it work for us but it allowed us to really grow together. -A

> member_0fe7c9ef96 wrote: Congrats! We hit our year this week, but we took a couple of months off due to real life problems. I agree with your comments about this form. You guys are what helped me stick with MC, as I had many reservations. It was wonderful to see people from the non-chastity mansion type living it day by day. Congrats to you as well. I was glad when you two returned. I have to agree about the other forums. I like visiting those sites from time to time but I just cannot relate to how they experience chastity; it's just not my thing. -A