Seeking

Femdom personals, city by city

49 posts across 21 boards. Each one is somebody setting out what they want from a dynamic where she leads, and what they will not pretend to want, in a city where somebody else might be reading. Start with yours.

A word from the desk

A post on these boards is anonymous and is expected to stay that way. Say what you want from a dynamic where she leads, what you will not have, and roughly where you live. We publish no names, no email addresses, no phone numbers, no messaging handles, no links to anyone else and no photographs, and we hold none of it either. A post carrying any of that is taken off rather than tidied up. So is one that describes somebody who did not write it, and so is the same paragraph sent to eight cities in an evening. Posts stand for thirty days and then come down. Every one of them has a flag on it, and the desk reads what it is sent, usually before the day is out.

This is a lifestyle board and not a professional one. Nothing on it is for hire. No rates, no tribute, no gift asked as the price of a reply, no session booked, and no money moving in either direction. If you came looking for a list of women who see clients, that is a different sort of website and this is not it.

United States

New York

22 posts

The loudest board here, and the hardest one to be heard on.

Los Angeles

0 posts

A wide pool with a freeway between every part of it.

Miami

0 posts

Quick to meet, harder to keep, and honest about both.

Houston

0 posts

Enormous, private, and slow to show its hand.

Dallas

0 posts

Careers with consequences, and terms agreed before coffee.

United Kingdom

London

27 posts

The most experienced pool, and the least tolerant of padding.

Manchester

0 posts

Big enough to matter, small enough to be recognised.

Liverpool

0 posts

Word travels, so nobody gets two first impressions.

Birmingham

0 posts

Central, mixed, and full of people at the very beginning.

Glasgow

0 posts

Formed out of friendship, and kept in plain language.

Germany

Berlin

0 posts

Terms stated flatly, and nobody looking at their shoes.

Hamburg

0 posts

Slower than Berlin, and built to last longer.

Spain

Madrid

0 posts

Late nights, long conversations, and terms that arrive last.

France

Paris

0 posts

Written first, met later, and short of anywhere to go.

Lyon

0 posts

Held together by reputation, which is also the ceiling on it.

Netherlands

Amsterdam

0 posts

No distance to hide behind, so people get to the point.

Brazil

São Paulo

0 posts

Huge, warm, and unembarrassed about any of it.

Rio de Janeiro

0 posts

Named late, and lived inside a group of friends.

Canada

Toronto

0 posts

Five months indoors, and a concierge who sees everyone.

Australia

Sydney

0 posts

Split by water and rent, with the seasons the wrong way round.

Russia

Moscow

0 posts

Quiet, referred, and slow by design.

If the boards are where you came in

Plenty of people land on a city page first and read the rest afterwards, or never. Three pieces cover what the boards assume you already know.

guide What femdom dating actually is
guide Where femdom dating happens online
letter There are no dominant women in my town

Who writes on these boards

Four kinds of post, because four kinds of person keep writing them. None of them is advertising anything.

Women who lead: Setting out what leading actually means to them, before anybody writes back.
Submissive men: Saying plainly what they hope for, what they are offering, and what they are not.
Couples: Partners searching together, with both of them present in the post rather than one speaking for two.
Service-minded: People whose interest is in being useful to someone. Domestic, practical, devotional. Never paid, and never for hire.

Reading only goes so far

Twenty-one boards of people saying what they want, and not one of them is you yet. Putting a post in front of women and men near you, and answering theirs, happens on the platform this site connects to.

Write yours where it will be read →