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Suggesting the Best Starter Devices for Male Chastity Beginners

I've seen a number of newcomers asking about which device to pick for their first one. This thread is the perfect spot to gather everyone's thoughts and…

member_7f5b971d37 23 Aug 2026 #1

I’ve seen a number of newcomers asking about which device to pick for their first one. This thread is the perfect spot to gather everyone’s thoughts and advice on choosing a starter piece, especially for those new to Male Chastity. I strongly suggest starting with a CB - XXXX series unit for these reasons:

  1. They cost less than custom stainless steel options, letting you test the waters before committing fully. You might decide MC isn’t your thing; if that happens, it doesn’t hurt too much financially since they are easy to resell.
  2. The plastic CB line helps explain how a “trapped ball device”(TBD) operates and gives you a sense of your base ring size needs. This data is essential when considering measuring for a custom metal unit later on.
  3. It’s possible the CB series fits you and your life perfectly right away. My last bit of advice: purchase from an authorized dealer to ensure a proper warranty in case issues arise, plus access to spare parts and extras. The maker, AL Miller, can direct you to official retailers. Beware of counterfeits, particularly on Ebay. What do other seasoned users suggest for beginners entering MC?:?:????
member_3c8283a995 24 Aug 2026 #2

4. Your body WILL adapt to the device as time passes. Consequently, your ring and spacer sizes will shift over time. If you choose the CB series (as wishful4 suggested), begin with larger rings and spacers that feel comfortable. Then reduce the size gradually as you get used to it. Custom devices don't offer this flexibility since each new ring costs extra.

member_381064b05f 26 Aug 2026 #3

> member_3c8283a995 wrote:Then, adjust down in size as you get accustomed to the device. This is not an option with a custom device as you have to pay for every ring and change. This limitation also applies to certain unique devices like Birdlock, which comes as one solid piece. The Bon4 offers two sizes, making it slightly more flexible.

member_75c78a1ec7 27 Aug 2026 #4

> member_7f5b971d37 wrote:The final recommendation is to make sure and buy from an authorized seller so you have a valid warranty should you have a problem with the device and you can also buy replacement parts and accessories. The manufacturer, AL Miller, can point you to an authorized retailer. There are a lot of knock offs out there, especially on Ebay. I found to be excellent regarding both service speed and quality. They provide a one-year warranty with their device sales, which I haven't seen elsewhere from other vendors. One time, I placed an order at 1AM on Friday night using standard shipping. The package arrived by Tuesday! They also sell individual replacement parts for the CB series.