Kink Compared to Everyday Living

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I've gone over this multiple times and I'm still unsure whether you're posing a question, venting frustration, or showing off. Regardless, the answer to all three is Yes!

I think the OP is just sharing his story, and I appreciate him for it. You really can't beat real-life experience. As for Kink versus Life; let me borrow from Lennon: 'Life is what you do while waiting for Kink to arrive.' Every time Chatelaine puts these shackles on me, I feel lucky.