What sparked your interest in male chastity?

Hello, I’m a newcomer here and I’d like to know about the mental side of developing a wish for chastity. Did something happen in your youth or early adult years that sparked this interest? Was it your wife or partner who proposed it, leading you to enjoy it? How did things begin? Just exploring.

I can't pinpoint the exact moment of realization, but looking back, I've always been a submissive man. I realize that submission and **chastity** aren't necessarily tied together—I don't need to go down that specific path, thank you very much Sarah—but for me as a **submissive**, embracing **chastity** makes perfect sense. My CB6000 came in on August 19, 2010, and we've been using it since then.

I was the one who brought it up to my husband after reading some appealing **chastity** tales. I hadn't known much about it before then. We put his first device on him on August 16th and have been having a great time since. My blog covers all the details: D

It began with an innate fascination for **bondage** that I seem to have had since birth. I still recall being aroused by scenes in Karl May's "Wild West" novels where the heroes were bound by the villains. Around age 13, I started engaging in tie-up games with friends (both girls and boys), but once puberty hit, I realized these activities sexually excited me, though at the time I thought that made me a bit of an oddity. At that point, there wasn't much information available to tell me being aroused by tying up or being tied up was actually quite normal. So I practiced **selfbondage** on my own until meeting my wife. After gently introducing her to **bondage**, we started incorporating it into our intimate life and had a lot of fun doing so. Later, she admitted that spanking also turned her on. Most often, she was the one being bound, while she was somewhat hesitant about binding or interacting with me in that way. Now, with my **chastity** setup in place, she has discovered great pleasure in taking charge, whether by teasing me until I beg for release or stimulating me to **orgasm** according to her own timing. So it seems that **chastity** fulfills my desire to be bound; it's a form of **bondage** that stretches from the bedroom into everyday life.