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What Do You Do After Denial?

Just wrapped up over six weeks of denial. It’s been a really hot period for both of us, marking our second longest stretch. She truly holds the power to…

member_ccbf5e886d 23 Aug 2026 #1

Just wrapped up over six weeks of denial. It’s been a really hot period for both of us, marking our second longest stretch. She truly holds the power to decide when I’m done, and she firmly believes that my orgasm inside her is the ultimate act of love she can receive! So who am I to argue? Now, after such a long time in denial, what happens next: do you take some time off? How long does it last? Are there any specific restrictions? And how many orgasms are allowed before going back into chastity again? Does anyone just stop the dynamic until both parties feel ready to start anew? I know answers will vary widely, but it’ll be fun to see how each pair tries to pursue what suits them best! KBCB

member_381064b05f 24 Aug 2026 #2

We used to take a few days off to readjust, but we discovered that it was actually hottest for both of us to lock me back up immediately afterward, since that's when I least wanted to go back in. No, it doesn't make sense, but that's how it worked.

member_e0e2087b3e 25 Aug 2026 #3

We're just into a 6-7 week (end of September) period at the moment. Partly it's an experiment to see if it will go off without direct stimulation over that period, but it may well go the full 7 weeks. I think the best thing is to get right back into it. If I have a really big orgasm, as I expect I will in this case, I get a mood drop and my kinky levels kind of flatline for a few days and sometimes longer. If chastity is about more than just the few weeks, then my preference is to lock back up right away and try and re-energize the sexual and naughty energy.