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How Many Of Us Are Without Orgasm?

How many of us here are completely without orgasm (myself currently, hopefully), how many do so occasionally, and how many fairly regularly? Are you hitting…

member_e0e2087b3e 23 Aug 2026 #1

How many of us here are completely without orgasm (myself currently, hopefully), how many do so occasionally, and how many fairly regularly? Are you hitting your ideal timing?

member_a326065baf 24 Aug 2026 #2

As of two months ago, I would orgasm between once and four times a week. Recently, I've been locked up more and even when free, I've chosen not to masturbate. For personal reasons, I'm trying to see how this "sexual high" impacts my state of mind and ability to focus. So, I'm in a state of flux, and its interesting.

member_80ddf7d2d2 25 Aug 2026 #3

Prior to this, I was getting off by myself, 10 to 12 times a week. Now, I've been without since the midnight that begin 01 Oct. Can't say I'm happy about it, and no O date on the calendar

member_feda7f789f 25 Aug 2026 #4

For all practical purposes I am totally orgasm free, it has been over a year. This is the interval (is zero an interval?) that I like right now so I would say it is ideal. Having said that I am thinking that I might like to take a sabbatical for a while either later this year or early next. Haven't talked to my wife about that yet though:) Of course it will be a win / win for me. If she says yes I get my sabbatical, if she says no then I get affirmation of what I really want which is for her to be in control (and to be denied).

member_e565e4e7fa 26 Aug 2026 #5

At the minimum I get to orgasm about every 2 weeks and the longest at 8 weeks.

member_e3cc99d06c 28 Aug 2026 #6

Normally I get to experience an orgasm about 5 times a week, but lately there's been a bit of a dry spell of roughly twice a week....wife has a bad cold (though she still has enough energy to tease and torment me to near orgasm every night. To me, not getting off every day constitutes chastity....and I haven't noticed any lethargy or 'let down' after blasting a load!:P Regardless...she gets treated the same way....like a queen!