Helping my partner get more involved with the CB6000

My partner and I recently picked up a CB6000. We’ve worn it a few times, but not extensively. The longest I’ve stayed locked was just one day. Do you have any advice on how to get your partner more involved?

You need to bug her a bit more. Most women secretly want a man locked up, but some are too reserved to admit it. If you pester them enough, they'll usually come around.

Okay, seriously now. You gave us almost nothing to go on here. Have you actually spoken to her about this? Have both of you read any relevant books or websites? Have either of you checked out these forums? And have you discussed what each of you expects from the arrangement? What do *you* expect to get out of it, anyway?

I'm so glad I caught Tom's second reply!