Behavior Modification
I'd love to hear about any behavior changes your KH has put in place. This might cover everyday tasks, grooming routines, or other unusual duties tied into…
I’d love to hear about any behavior changes your KH has put in place. This might cover everyday tasks, grooming routines, or other unusual duties tied into playtime. Similarly, I’m wondering if anyone’s been sent off for beauty treatments or massage lessons to better serve their KH. The ideas have always appealed to me, but the actual experience is what matters.
Nope. Sorry, I can't really help with that one. My wife/KH likes how my behavior goes along. That's pretty much the reason she married me in the first place. 8-)
I need to spend less time on my phone and tablet while also assisting her with household tasks and looking after the kids; otherwise, I don't get any rewards.
I should mention that previously I probably didn't contribute as much to household duties as I could have. Now that I'm locked up, I handle almost all the laundry. Cooking was already my thing, but now I also clear and wash the dishes so she can officially clock off once the children are asleep. I rarely head to the pub after work anymore; I'd rather be at home with her. I make the bed each morning and put away all her clothes every evening when I get back from work. I've learned how to wash and hang everything of hers, and I know exactly where each item belongs. HOWEVER, none of these tasks were forced upon me. They are things I chose to do because they please her and help make up for twenty years of not pulling my weight. There's also the upside that by taking on these chores, she has more time to handle the detailed work which isn't really my strong suit. Of course, from time to time she takes a little liberty and might take a nap or read a book while I'm busy working, and personally, I find that quite arousing. I still avoid cleaning the bathrooms though;)
I've become more useful around the house too, but our biggest hurdle was masturbation. Since I'm retired and she is still working, it was very easy for me to "help myself" whenever I wanted. Later in the day, if she felt like intimacy, I usually wasn't interested yet.:( Now, however, I am always available when she desires. She remarks that "I seem more focused":D