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I plan to buy a Steelworxx device soon, though I need some guidance. I am of average build, uncircumcised, and have a PA piercing. I've been considering the…

member_823ca69c09 23 Aug 2026 #1

I plan to buy a Steelworxx device soon, though I need some guidance. I am of average build, uncircumcised, and have a PA piercing. I’ve been considering the Steelheart, Looker 2, or Looker 3 (specifically for PAs). I really want the Steelheart with its PA lock feature, but I’m worried about maintaining hygiene under my foreskin. Any thoughts? Ian Please keep this post; even though I posted a question previously, my original account was deleted and I had to register anew. Thanks.

member_4e3795d05d 23 Aug 2026 #2

should address most of your queries.

member_823ca69c09 24 Aug 2026 #3

> member_4e3795d05d wrote: should address most of your queries. Thanks. I've been reading Thumper's Blog for some time, but he is circumcised, which differs from my situation. I really desire full coverage but worry about hygiene. I watched Thumper’s cleaning video and while it looks excellent for circumcised men, it might not be perfect for me. Could you perhaps pull the foreskin back while locked?

member_4e3795d05d 25 Aug 2026 #4

Not with absolute certainty. I am occasionally placed in a Steelheart(1), which offers very little access to the glans. You essentially lose sensation or touch with it for as long as you wear it. I'm waiting for my recent PA piercing to heal and for Dietmar's hole to open up again so he can secure his PA fixing. I am also uncut, so if you are willing to wait a few weeks, I will be able to provide an update.

member_823ca69c09 26 Aug 2026 #5

> member_4e3795d05d wrote:Not with absolute certainty. I am occasionally placed in a Steelheart(1), which offers very little access to the glans. You essentially lose sensation or touch with it for as long as you wear it. > I'm waiting for my recent PA piercing to heal and for Dietmar's hole to open up again so he can secure his PA fixing. I am also uncut, so if you are willing to wait a few weeks, I will be able to provide an update. Many thanks.

member_823ca69c09 26 Aug 2026 #6

Well, my device has been ordered! 1 x Steelheart - Total length of the chastity belt here is 105mm, Tube measures 38 mm, A-ring size is 47 mm 1 x Anatomical ring *designed for all cb´s with an A-ring size of 45 mm 1 x Fixing *specifically for PA-Frenum Piercing 1 x Stainless steel ring *compatible with all cb`s 1 x Integrated Lock (fits all CB`s) Now the waiting game begins........

member_feda7f789f 27 Aug 2026 #7

I don't recall seeing where you mentioned your size, but those dimensions appear quite large to me. I have never encountered a 38mm tube before, though I am certain it is really big. At one point, I ordered a 35mm tube with an overall length of 80mm and found it huge. It was much harder for me to keep it concealed within my trousers. If you could share some more measurements, I'm sure many of us would be glad to comment.

member_823ca69c09 27 Aug 2026 #8

Hi, I have measured and double-checked quite a few times, but I am happy to receive advice; after all, that is why I asked:-) My shaft diameter is actually 38mm and the head measures 40mm. Being uncircumcised with the PA fixing, I thought I would need a bit of extra room. For length, including my foreskin while it hangs down: if I use the tape from the position on my groin where the cock ring will sit to the end of my long and loose foreskin, it measures 120mm. The PA itself is 8mm thick with a 20mm diameter, so that takes up some space too. I have reduced the length requirement to 105mm as most people suggest leaving less room. Even if I pull my foreskin back, the length remains about 110mm without accounting for the PA fixture yet. Regarding the cock ring, I actually own a normal standalone one that is 50mm in diameter. This feels slightly loose, so I have ordered both a 47mm and a 45mm ring to allow for some reduction as needed. I'm open to being corrected, but we need to be quick because I paid for the item today:-)