ejpsub My Experience with Lori's Custom Chastity Device

Is Lori’s Tube a fantasy come true or just purgatory?

I’m mid-forties, married with kids, and have been kinky since before I was born. Lady Jessica – my wife of 17 years and mother to our two boys. She’s an extraordinary office manager who often works from home and embraces the role of a stay-at-home mom! Before we got married, I introduced Lady Jessica to my kinkier side; back then, I didn’t even know what Femdom was. We’ve been exploring a D/s relationship for the last 5-6 years, and she has agreed to be my Domme as far as she is comfortable with it. Over that time, we’ve built up quite a collection of toys (plus some from before, when it wasn’t strictly a D/s dynamic), but one thing that never really worked out was a chastity device. Since my wife isn’t an initiator and I am naturally submissive, we need something in our relationship to keep things “happening”.

After reading up on the subject for a while, we decided to try chastity, and I purchased a CB2000 – but it didn’t work out. After experimenting with a couple of the CB series devices, we figured two things out: first, any device that traps the balls is going to be problematic, and secondly, I am really a grower rather than a shower. We tried voluntary chastity (which worked quite well, though always wanting the next level), a form of Kali’s teeth (a plastic strap with teeth and numbered zip tie which works for shorter durations but causes inevitable skin damage after a few days) and a couple of others, but nothing seemed to fit the bill perfectly.

She likes the effect of keeping me chaste but doesn’t want a “hassle” or damage to me. Also, my willpower sometimes runs into conflict with human nature! So eventually, we decided to get a custom-made Lori’s tube. I was pierced in September last year and after a practice try with a PA5000 (which split), Lady Jessica ordered me a device for Christmas (actually placing the order just a few days after because of a miscommunication between us). After some back-and-forth with Lori, we decided on an 18c tube with a 1 1/4 inch diameter and three-inch length, featuring internal spikes and no ball ring at all. Delivery was out six months, so we expected it to arrive by early June. Fortunately, they are catching up on their orders.

It showed up Friday, April 26th, and by noon it was installed. It took a number of tries before I finally had Lady Jessica help with the PA piece and the screw. Ms. Lori advised us to go with as small a diameter as possible; considering that I had already split the largest PA5000 (which was actually tolerable for the short period I wore it) and that Lady Jessica ordered internal spikes (short and blunt, but when I get an erection, they become NOTICABLE), we thought the 1.25-inch diameter would be just right.

After an hour in the device, I wasn’t sure; by nightfall, I was starting to worry; and by midnight, I knew I was in trouble. This is where I found out that asking Lady Jessica to help with the installation turned out to be a mistake. She loves the effect of me being chaste but doesn’t like messing around with the “toys”. Our agreement was that I would install the tube myself and self-monitor for a week or two before handing over the keys. But since she already has the key, it seems that period is over.

After waking up in extreme pain, I asked for the key back. She said no: “First try getting rid of the ‘hard-on’ before I let you out.” It took a short while thinking about bills to pay and such, but eventually she relented. But it still hurt some, particularly right at the piercing site. Then she had me go through all the possible things that could help or change things up without removing the device.

On Ms. Lori’s site, she used to sell compression shorts to help keep the weight of the device off the piercing. We didn’t have any handy, but I have a small collection of “panty girdles” and “control brief panties”. For several years, my voluntary chastity consisted of “no touching” while up during the day and sleeping in these compression garments at night to keep things out of reach. They mostly worked, and I stayed chaste for up to seven months one time.

I tried one on over the Lori’s tube. This accomplished two things: first, it takes up all the weight of the tube; secondly, it forces the tube to lay flat against the scrotum. The second factor keeps me from attempting to get fully hard (when I do attempt a full erection, it is nearly unbearable).

I slept intermittently that night, and Lady Jessica got some extra attention before breakfast. The rest of the day was still painful at times but much better. The second night involved many nighttime erection attempts but not nearly as bad as the first. This morning, I playfully “molested” a groggy but happy Lady Jessica, which she enjoyed thoroughly and taught me a new meaning for the word frustration. I had never quite made it to a full week in the CB series without either coming out of one or having a testicular issue.

With voluntary chastity there is still plenty of sensation to be had; this is complete and total lack of stimulation other than painful types (pinches or spikes). Because of the internal spikes, I cannot even slide the tube a little on my penis when I am hard. Nothing! Period! I changed out of the girdle into the brief for the day (after a shower) and off we went. Today, there were times that I could see how people say you can eventually sort of forget that you are wearing a device at all. Not quite there yet but I can see it coming. All of this finally catches me up to nearly current events.

The last few hours have again been interesting—not on the device front, but on the Domme side. Lady Jessica laid down the law “sort of”:

1. There will be a “just in case removal and inspection in a few days,” after which the tube goes back on immediately without any questions or issues as long as there are no health concerns.
2. I may request out again at any time, and she will let me out – BUT there will not be mention of chastity or kink for an extended period afterward. The time period is guaranteed to be at least thirty days and maybe a lot longer (like six months) depending on her mood. (Having been married to her 17 years, I know she’s just leaving herself some wiggle room, so it will likely be the full six months.)
3. I will remain chaste until my trip in late June. If I have fulfilled all requirements, I will be allowed a week of freedom before and no specific requirements during my trip.
4. I must wear panties or girdles 24/7 since it seems they are needed to keep the device from becoming too painful.
5. I am required to keep a journal of events (Here it is. This list, along with the rest, was planned on but not necessarily all at once from day one).
6. I will sleep in a rubber waist cincher and compression vest from Squeem (discipline and submissive training we have tried successfully before; I am allowed one night off per week but rewarded for making it through all seven nights and punished severely if fewer than six nights are completed).
7. I must lose thirty pounds before the trip. Punishments will be added for each pound short.
8. I must keep up my normal domestic duties (help with cooking, dishes, laundry, etc.). This is her world, but help is welcome.
9. Rewards and punishments based on work outcomes (I am somewhat commission-based, so motivation can have a positive after-effect on our income).
10. Once the Warriors are out of the playoffs, I will have to exchange punishments for any sports matches I watch. (Go Warriors). She isn’t a fan of sports and never has been. She doesn’t mind family activities like going to a baseball game but dislikes having family time preempted by sports coverage. (Unfortunately, neither of our children is a big sports fan; one son plays football but doesn’t love watching it on TV that much, and the other is a theater/drama club member and tech junkie.)
11. Bedtime is set by her.

Lady Jessi

I enjoy plenty of cuddle time and also use bedtime to enforce punishments. (With the kids around, this is one of our few safe windows, and it happens EVERY DAY) More will be added as she deems appropriate. Her final remark was that she actually doubts I’ll get my week of freedom, warning that if I don’t try really hard, I won’t be allowed to cum during the entire trip or upon returning straight back into chastity. (The trip involves two weeks of camping with extended family, and Lady Jessica has kept me chaste through it several times before.) The next time I MUST be released is for a business trip to New York in mid-September. (Thank you TSA.) After that, the camping trip comes up again next year! (At least those two events happen every year! But since I’ve never lied to Her about my chastity status before, I might need to loosen the tube for the flight, though I can probably take it as a carry-on and self-install it.) If anyone wants a list of punishments we use, just ask!