Allmylife4her Living under her key and my lock

On April 22nd, 2013, my girlfriend and I decided that male chastity would be a permanent fixture in our relationship. We had tried it three times over the previous year with varying results. The first attempt happened about a year ago; it only lasted one week before I took myself out early. The second time went on for two weeks, and the third stretched to a month until I refused to get re-caged, which upset her quite a bit.

At first she was doubtful about male chastity, but as we experimented, she realized the power and benefits it gave her. She is now very pleased with having my cock locked away in its cage. By the end of that last month-long attempt—though I noted how disappointed she was when I refused to go back in—the key for my cage was hanging around her neck or on an anklet every day, whether we were out and about or not.

I had some physical discomfort with the CB**** due to its manufacturing quality. It turned out our shockingly cheap knock-off wasn’t built well enough for long-term wear, causing trouble for my balls. Fortunately, buying a genuine CB cage solved that problem. The takeaway is simple: you get what you pay for!

I feel I’ve grown more mature over the last year regarding my view of male chastity and have become much more realistic about expectations. There’s so much online information out there that can be misleading; it’s easy to get caught up in the fantasy phase (which we are, being men), but eventually, you need to ground yourself and return to the basics. For me, it boils down to giving up control and submitting totally and personally to her. She loves controlling my orgasms and having me serve her when she desires.

I also made plenty of mistakes with the rules initially. My first list was written from ‘my perspective,’ listing what I thought she wanted, which really just reflected what I wanted—a big mistake! Later, we created a new set where she wrote them down, better matching both our needs and expectations. Today’s rules are a hybrid that satisfies us both. It took us a year to settle on these guidelines.

As I’ve learned, this journey is more of a walk than a sprint; mistakes will happen along the way.

I am so thankful for her patience over the last year! I look forward to sharing more milestones in this journal.

Tenth day.

Twenty days in. Emotions have been roller-coastering, but I’m getting used to wearing the cage 24/7. I woke up very early today because of a nocturnal erection, though I managed to fall back asleep after a little while. The dreams were incredibly vivid:shock: