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Starting Out in chastity

Hi there, I’m 22 and just starting out in the world of chastity. I’ve had an interest in it for some time now, so I finally went ahead and got a CB-6000S,…

member_1b03bcea1f 24 Aug 2026 #1

Hi there, I’m 22 and just starting out in the world of chastity. I’ve had an interest in it for some time now, so I finally went ahead and got a CB-6000S, which I absolutely love. My girlfriend is wonderful and will be holding my keys. We purchased this device with the specific goal of abstaining from sex until we get married. I’m currently getting used to wearing it, and we plan to begin our journey in about a week or so.

I struggle quite a bit with masturbation, which she doesn’t mind at all, but we’d both like for me to stop doing it because it’s beginning to detract from the intimacy we share. Our current arrangement allows me two releases per month for some relief, while she enjoys unlimited orgasms on her own. However, if I annoy her, those release privileges can be revoked instantly, giving her complete control over my device.

We also intend to halt all releases roughly five months before our wedding day so we save that energy for the big night. Since she is still in college, it will likely be another 1.5 to 2 years until then. She is thrilled about being my keyholder and deciding exactly when I cum, as well as where and how frequently.

Additionally, we are considering purchasing a JailBird device before our wedding to ensure an even more secure fit.

member_1f353e1d87 27 Aug 2026 #2

Does that count as 'not having sex' in the Bill Clinton sense?