Does a form of chastity like this really work out there?

Hi everyone To put it simply, my future girlfriend and I are in love, but she has some trust issues because several guys have taken advantage of her over time. When I brought up chastity to her, she was quite interested (which shows she knows I don’t just want her for sex and won’t be seeing other women). So we’re thinking about buying a chastity belt, but that’s where the dilemma starts. Abstinence/no sexual activity is no problem (I do love her), but I worry because I get erections frequently since we are both young (19 years old). It looks like it could hurt, and I need to sleep through the night. Is there a chastity belt that allows for an erection without pain, yet prevents sex or masturbation unless she removes it? Or does anyone have other suggestions? Thank you!

The honest answer is ....I'm not so sure... At 47 years old, a snug cage wakes me up six or seven times each night; the one I wear currently usually rouses me two to three times. Back when I first started in chastity it was very painful, and if I lasted two nights it was good luck. Now, however, I can go for two or three weeks without trouble. You just get used to it.... If you absolutely cannot be woken up at night then I really doubt chastity will suit you. Harsh truth...sorry...If I had to guess, the silicone ones that offer a bit of flexibility would give your best chance, but I have never tried them myself...they look a bit gross and seem like they'd get dirty and smelly quite quickly.

> member_af7e26f81b wrote:Hi everyone > To put it simply, my future girlfriend and I are in love, but she has some trust issues because several guys have taken advantage of her over time. When I brought up chastity to her, she was quite interested (which shows she knows I don't just want her for sex and won't be seeing other women). > So we're thinking about buying a chastity belt, but that's where the dilemma starts. Abstinence/no sexual activity is no problem (I do love her), but I worry because I get erections frequently since we are both young (19 years old). It looks like it could hurt, and I need to sleep through the night. > Is there a chastity belt that allows for an erection without pain, yet prevents sex or masturbation unless she removes it? Or does anyone have other suggestions? > Thank you! What you are looking for doesn't really exist. A flaccid penis will never truly fit inside a cage designed to hold it when soft and discreet under clothes while erect. The issue with nighttime erections is almost 'part of the package'; many here have just gotten used to it, and some aren't even disturbed by them at all. A well-made device that fits properly helps reduce erection discomfort somewhat, but ultimately an erect penis in a cage is best described as uncomfortable. Silicone devices are about as close as you will get. I had a BON4 while my KH got restless because I woke up dealing with painful erections in the metal cage. It didn't work out at all. The BON4 was ridiculous to put on and felt quite insecure. My experience with the BON4 wasn't great.. there are details on my blog if you're interested, ( ... is-no-more) also search the devices section and browse the whole site, this is a topic of frequent discussion. If your girlfriend wants certainty from a device then a metal cage like a jail bird or steelworx is the best option. If you live with her then the next part is manageable... if not... it probably won't work for you. We solve the nighttime issue by noting that when I am away on business I must wear the cage at night and, being alone, I can handle the erections without disturbing CelticQueen. When I am home she unlocks and removes the cage, which works very well for us; if you adopted a similar system she would trust you while you are apart.

The closest option I can think of is the Curve: it's quite large and depending on your erection angle you might get away with it unless you point very upwards. You won't be able to achieve a fully rigid state in it, but there might be enough room for you to grow sufficiently without ripping your testicles off from pressure. The difficulty with the Curve is also why I suggest it: it's much larger than other devices and will create a prominent bulge under most trousers. Mind you, if you are already big anyway no-one will really notice the difference.