Teasing and Denial Theory

During our break at work, seven of us guys were hanging out while three others shared tales from their night before at a stripper club. Two of them focused on the lap dances they received, describing how stiff they got and how sore their balls felt by the time they headed home. Some of the rest of us thought that sounded like a great way to wrap up an evening.

Afterward, I pondered this situation and formed a theory. More men enjoy being teased and denied than care to admit it. After all, these guys were happy to pay for the experience! The booming business of lap dancers supports this idea.

If my hypothesis holds water, then chaste males aren’t so different from the “average” guy after all. Chaste men simply accept their condition, with their Key Holder serving as a permanent “lap dancer”.

Using teasing and denial for a relatively brief period to boost the subsequent orgasm isn't anything new or unusual. Consider the section on Slow Masturbation in "Joy of Sex". It is likely that these men wouldn't extend their denial beyond a single day. K

Here's a question though. Teasing and denial while dealing with throbbing hard-ons alongside your partner is one thing, but what about enduring that state in the presence of your buddies.....?