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Okay, it's not really a poll. I'm curious about how you all keep this lifestyle from your kids' notice. My three-year-old boy doesn't quite get personal…

member_9cccde6e0e 24 Aug 2026 #1

Okay, it’s not really a poll. I’m curious about how you all keep this lifestyle from your kids’ notice. My three-year-old boy doesn’t quite get personal space yet; he has walked into the bathroom to watch me while using my device, and even though I try to conceal it, he spotted it. Plus, there are those times when he climbs onto me and feels the device through my trousers. He actually asked once, “What do you have in there?”

I make an effort to hide it from him. When he does see or ask about it, I tell him it’s a toy for daddies only. As he grows up, I expect hiding it will become easier since he won’t be glued to me as tightly anymore, but I am wondering how others here manage their chastity lifestyle with children of any age.

member_995972ce2d 25 Aug 2026 #2

Sorry that I can't be much help as a resource because I just received my CB6000. My son is ten now, so he isn't jumping on my lap or roughhousing quite as much. Still, I see your dilemma.

member_35559a144a 26 Aug 2026 #3

The answer is obvious: just get rid of the kid!:lol:

member_0fe7c9ef96 26 Aug 2026 #4

We have two girls, aged three and four. They also lack a strong sense of personal space:) Fortunately, Jnuts has always kept the bathroom door locked; they only follow him in. He doesn't wear the JB as often anymore since we rely more on the honor system. However, he has had several incidents where jumping on him caused the device to twist.

member_0eef6a3fa2 27 Aug 2026 #5

I smiled when I saw the original question because I was already thinking of posting something similar. Our kids are one and two-and-a-half years old, and the older one follows me everywhere like a shadow. I've tried to hide my device as best I can, but I think he noticed "something" once or twice so far. He hasn't asked about it yet, though. But that will likely come soon. Regarding showering, we have an arrangement where I take a shower after the kids leave for daycare (since I work from home, this works well). On weekends, my wife lets me out when I go to shower. Because of the children, I was released during our recent vacation.

member_a07451c407 27 Aug 2026 #6

I think the answer here is similar to what happens at the gym: keep it private and be discreet. Avoid being undressed in front of them, lock the bathroom door, watch out when playing with them (luckily all males are trained to protect against unwanted blows there), and tuck everything away if you need to lie down with them. I also discuss removal with my wife if we're doing something that puts us in close proximity to the kids, such as camping. If you do get caught by a stray bump or similar incident, just deflect (say it was your belt buckle, etc.).