Hello Again! Troubleshooting My Gear

Hello everyone, I’ve signed up before but lost touch with that email address and can’t quite recall my password, haha. So… Hello again:) Lately, I’m dealing with an issue involving my queens keep device and would appreciate any insights you could offer. Initially, when I bought the QK, the cage was heavy enough to drag it down over my shaft, causing it to slide back significantly where I could pull out. So I sized down a ring, but now every time I get hard, my balls feel like they’re being squeezed and change colors quite a bit. My guess is that when an erection starts, it builds up inside me before the ball ring has fully engaged. Imagine an erection where about 1.5 inches of your penis are lodged at the end of a very narrow cage. I thought the solution was simple: my cage might be too small for me. However, since I’m mostly a grower rather than a shower—with a soft length around 2 inches and erecting to about 6.5 inches—I’ve read that getting a longer cage gives more room but isn’t ideal. Currently, the ring sits snugly, but when I attach the cage, not everything fits inside properly no matter how small my flaccid state is. Once my penis reaches the end of the cage, it pushes the rest back inward. The worst part? Even if I tried hard enough, I could probably pull out a bit more, though I wouldn’t want to. I had similar trouble with the CB series devices and worry that maybe my body just doesn’t mesh well with cages; it’s getting discouraging. I have a Neosteel measuring kit nearby because I fear that might be my best option, but both she and I feel a full belt isn’t practical right now (due to work). So, what should I do? Could someone give me some advice?

It seems like the fit is pretty accurate to me. If your testicles are being pulled up along the shaft like a flag on a pole, then perhaps the back ring is slightly too large. However, having erectile tissue pushed back into the body happens when there's nowhere else for it to go (it has to end up somewhere). It can be painful, but as long as the discomfort subsides during an erection, you should be fine.

To clarify, it doesn't drag my balls upward. The erection begins and the ring becomes tight enough to stay in place, but because the erection "has nowhere to go," it expands within the diameter of the back ring. This puts pressure on the blood vessels and veins leading to the testicles. After a few seconds, it can become quite painful. Once that passes, however long it takes, feeling returns along with color, though occasionally some broken capillaries remain. I suspect this might not be entirely normal, but as long as I'm not erect for too long at a time, I'll assume it's okay =/

That sounds more like the base ring is just too tight to me. I took a look at a picture of your queens keep device. I'm not sure how adjustable they are, but if it were a CB series model, I would suggest trying a larger diameter base ring and experimenting with the gap between the cage and the ring. This is one of those situations where seeing an actual photo would help clarify things.