Low drive?

It’s like Day 12 and I am a little annoyed my libido is flat. It has been a hard year, I have been busy a lot, and my wife and I haven’t had much time to play. Still, I would have thought I would have gotten “perked up” by now. Anybody out there ever feel flat despite seeking orgasm denial as a pick up? It usually works for me. Maybe I am just tired.

Sometimes a little extra teasing or some edging is required to get things going. Sometimes chastity becomes a routine, like putting on socks, and you need a little something extra to entice the caged parts.

Sometimes other parts of life get in the way. I have ups and downs, and I don't think it is realistic to expect otherwise.

It's perfectly normal. After all, even *without* chastity, you'd have periods during which your libido would be up or down. Being denied doesn't change anything; rather, it just sort of enhances what's already there.