Weekly Teasing Frequency from Your Partner

I’m curious how often you all experience teasing while on orgasm denial. I’d also like to hear if those teasing sessions help you extend the time between orgasms?

Typically, I hold out for a week before allowing myself an orgasm. Long-term denial isn’t really my thing since I love orgasms and feel that in this later stage of life it makes sense not to deprive myself too much. If we don’t have sex every couple of days, I get quite restless. By ‘sex,’ I mean she gets her release if she wants one, while I just receive teasing. This leaves me feeling satisfied for a few more days, so I’m not being overly attentive or smothering her with affection.

I believe I can stretch beyond a week in denial provided we maintain regular sexual contact. We’re currently testing this by extending the interval to ten and a half days, with teasing every few days—or sooner if she gets particularly hornier than usual; it seems she’s been very horny lately. What about you all? Does anyone go long-term without frequent teasing? Or perhaps even no teasing at all?

I usually spend about thirty to forty-five minutes teasing my husband on four or five nights each week since I work the night shift. However, he gets two or three nights of intense teasing that last around two to three hours, sometimes even longer. Hopefully that gives you a good idea. To put it in perspective, this month his only orgasm has been just one.

Wow. Most of the time, it's about an hour-long session, but there are also small teases scattered throughout the day, like caressing my cage or briefly exposing her naughty parts.

> LadynMonkey wrote: > So I tease hubby for 30-45 mins about 4-5 nights a week (work nights) usually but he gets a 2-3 nights of extreme teasing that's around 2-3 hours or longer. Wow.:o That seems quite attentive. Lately, if I get teased once a week, it feels like luck to me. It typically happens when we go to bed for the night. She cuddles up and begins teasing. After about fifteen minutes, her hand stops moving, and within moments I can feel her body start twitching as she drifts off into dreamland.:) She has had a lot going on recently.