Draining Without Climax

I have been wearing my lock for months and have really gotten used to it. My sex life with my partner has flipped roles. She absolutely loves taking on the dominant role of pegging me from behind, and I love that too. I’ve adapted well to using a strap-on dildo so she can give me pleasure while I remain locked in my cage.

One thing I’m still working out is how best to get milked without having an orgasm. Pegging has become my sole sexual relief now, which is great. However, I’m not sure what the best way is to drain my semen and avoid masturbating at the same time. I’ve tried milking from behind but haven’t had much luck. Has anyone figured out how to milk the penis directly without feeling orgasm or pleasure?

If you're having trouble milking from behind have you considered ruined orgasms? There is lots of info available on here about it and it can be very effective in the sense that you get so close to enjoying your orgasm only to be left as frustrated as you were before you started but at least a little emptier.

Hi NicolaMary, In answer to the question of how to milk without any of the related pleasure of ejaculation, there are only two methods I know that leave me agonisingly frustrated. Firstly though, let me agree with you that I don't think prostate milking would work for me either and besides, it is known to usually take a long time and I wouldn't want my Princess to work that hard at it. If you've tried using spoiled orgasms (i.e. stopping stimulation at the point of orgasm) and still get too much out of it, then you can go one step further. My Princess brings me close to orgasm again and again missing only a stroke or two each time to deny, getting closer to the edge each time but never reaching the vital point. If done right you get to the point where you want to cum so much that you start to strain for a spasm. It feels like trying to have a pee without success. Eventually, your straining forces open those important bits inside and simply dribbles a small amount of semen out the end of your penis with no satisfying feeling and leaving you not fully empty and frustrated. My Princess has perfected this method and after cuffing my wrists to my bondage collar and removing my cage, she takes me to the shower and does the milking process while washing my bits. She carries out the whole process mechanically like a doctor would, saying nothing, and ignoring me as I heave and plead her to let me cum for once (and I do mean it at the time too!) Having been denied for so long it doesn't take her long and when she sees the milking she laughs heartily and says something like "Awww! What a shame!" unsympathetically. She gets great pleasure out of seeing my frustration and reminding me that it will be a long, LONG time before she lets me cum again, if EVER! Because this method does give some pleasure from hand stimulation, my Princess sometimes uses the electro-stim method. Using a suitable TENS machine with a "throbbing" pulse (not a vibrating type pulse) she cuffs me spread-eagled to the bed, pulls my foreskin back and fits a rubber electrode ring to my penis behind the glans. An electrode pad is then attached to the back of my scrotal sack. Attaching the electrodes to the TENS machine, she slowly turns up the intensity in stages until she sees me writhing and just bearing the shock of the electric pulse. To me I can only describe the feeling as those essential muscles pulsating like the strain during orgasm however with an intensity similar to a repeated cramp pain that just won't go away - not pleasurable at all to me (even though I do like a bit of BDSM). If Princess sees me getting used to it she ups the intensity a little more. Eventually, after about 5 to 10 minutes, the constant and intense throbbing releases the ejaculate without ANY feeling to the subject as the electro pulse continues. The first time we tried this, we both thought the process was a little too barbaric for us, however we decided to try it again and have eventually realised that it is the only method that offers me complete and utter denial of any pleasure. It's worth giving it a try if you fancy it, but be sensible and start slowly. Let us all know if you do.