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Is There A Dedicated Keyholder Site Or Forum??

My KH and I are both new to the kink, but she needs a more direct site or forum for herself (private) rather than just using the male-focused ones. As most…

member_b74b9416da 24 Aug 2026 #1

My KH and I are both new to the kink, but she needs a more direct site or forum for herself (private) rather than just using the male-focused ones. As most would agree, the community and sites lean heavily toward men.

She always checks what I post and which forums I join, so nothing is hidden from her. What’s the point in hiding? It’s only together that chastity can be fun and exciting!

Does anyone have some suggestions?

member_476ab6a97a 24 Aug 2026 #2

There is a keyholder section here.

member_b74b9416da 24 Aug 2026 #3

lol. Besides this one! Sorry HornyHutch.

member_381064b05f 25 Aug 2026 #4

The only "Keyholder specific" sites I've encountered are professional ones. We have a forum that is exclusively for Keyholders (it's hidden from you), where they can discuss their ideas, problems, emotions, and other issues. There aren't as many women participating as men, but the active ones are very good. Remember, this forum was established primarily for people who lean more vanilla, so you won’t tend to run into the same crowd here as on most other forums like Fetlife, etc. There is a forum I can think of that focuses more on female-led relationships; some women there might use chastity devices, but I'm not sure if that's exactly what you're looking for.

member_208ad55e4c 25 Aug 2026 #5

Obviously I'll suggest here too. The guys can't see the KH section of the forum, so we are able to chat freely!:) I joined another female-led forum, but it's not very focused on chastity... if you catch my drift. Here, we focus on chastity, tease, and denial... which is what most of us Keyholders need support with. That’s my opinion.

member_6a2b8da741 25 Aug 2026 #6

> member_b74b9416da wrote: lol Besides here sorry HornyHutch. So the obvious question is: has your KH signed up for this yet? If she has, the admins will give her access to the private section. Just let Tom Allen or Atone know.

member_381064b05f 26 Aug 2026 #7

> LadynMonkey wrote: > I have joined another female led forum but it's not very chastity... if you get me. Here we are chastity, tease and denial... which is what most of us KH's need support with. Can I ask which one? I have a couple linked on She-Held, but neither of them seem oriented toward chastity, and both feel (IMO) a bit more dry than this forum.

member_208ad55e4c 26 Aug 2026 #8

> member_381064b05f wrote: > > LadynMonkey wrote: > > I have joined another female led forum but it's not very chastity... if you get me. Here we are chastity, tease and denial... which is what most of us KH's need support with. > Can I ask which one? I have a couple linked on She-Held, but neither of them are chastity oriented, and both of them are (IMO) a bit more dry than this forum. Uhhh, they're more FLR-focused... maybe She Rules? There isn't much activity there from what I saw, which is why I'm here 22 times a day:)

member_797c6de76a 27 Aug 2026 #9

Hi everyone. I’m Lockedup24’s keyholder. Thanks for the info. My husband got blue balls from all the teasing last night, and it continued on its own during the night; he got very little sleep lol. LadynMonkey, I received your message and will friend you here.

member_feda7f789f 27 Aug 2026 #10

> member_797c6de76a wrote: Hi everyone im Lockedup24s keyholder You have been added to the keyholder group. Welcome to the forum.

member_208ad55e4c 27 Aug 2026 #11

Welcome Ponytail!:)