Spoken to and Treated Like Unlawful Guests If Parents Visit

A couple of weeks back my parents visited us for a weekend and I politely requested that my KH not reveal our Kink, and if she could release me while avoiding ordering any services in public (staying Vanilla as best as possible). Surprisingly enough, she agreed, though she mentioned she wasn’t entirely thrilled about loosening the reins.

The weekend went reasonably well; mostly I just received a few looks from my KH signaling “DO IT NOW” and so on. The holiday season is approaching again, and I’m sure we’ll see more frequent visits. How do some of you manage your situation when guests stay for over a day or two?

Family isn't really in my hubby's pants, so his device stays exactly where it is. He doesn't take it off; however, we tend to be less Female Led when out in public.

During family get-togethers, weddings, social gatherings, etc., my cage stays locked. No excuses whatsoever. I perform most of my duties in a manner that an outsider cannot decipher our relationship dynamics. Yes, many do have the idea that my wife is 'little dominant'; but that's about it.