MrCage starting out in a fresh way

Click.click.. And that’s how it started. A few clicks on the Adam and Eve website. My wife and I were looking for a new toy and browsing the site. Then I saw a title for chastity. What’s this all about? I wondered as I looked. Well, if it’s here then someone must be doing it. Hmmm I wonder if THAT would be fun. So we looked at the devices. She looked at me, I looked at her and said “okay, try it. It might be fun.” And so we ordered the CB-Curve. Then we waited…one week then two. In the meantime I started looking at the various blogs. I found Thumper, and Sarah Jameson and a few others. There is FemDom but she is a little over the top for us. So Mrs. Cage got the subscription to Sarah, and I started reading. Then I got scared. Uh-oh, what have I got myself into? We enjoy a little tying and spanking now and then. It’s always just a “treat” for us and not really an everyday thing. So I thought the cage would be just that. Then the box came. We made a date for a contract and then “the ceremony”. It was romantic and erotic. The moment she clicked the lock, I knew this would be a really different thing. Our agreement is to try this for one month then re-evaluate the situation. That was a good idea. We commit for a month and then if we like it we go on. So, I thought maybe she would give me a day on and then a day off just to get used to it. When she clicked the lock, she looked at me with that mischievous smile and said, “NOPE! It’s on for the month.” Wow. Now today is day one. I made it through the first night last night. Awoke a few times to some pinching from the nocturnal erection. It wasn’t that bad. So Mrs Cage suggested that we go ski today. Sure, it’s a beautiful spring day. Halfway through the afternoon, the caged tiger was roaring with chafing pain. It’s okay she said. So we come home, get ready for a dinner out. She dresses completely HOT, and alluring. She is beautiful. Just before we leave,Mrs Cage goes to her dresser and says, “Before we go, you have to do this.” She hands me her vibrator. “No way.” I said. “That is just unfair . Come on, it’s day ONE, and you want me to do that? ” Well, considering the terms of the contract, I “happily complied with her request”. She had an incredible orgasm as I watched, growing inside my cage. This was a real turn on for both of us. On the way to dinner, I couldn’t help myself but ask, “how was your orgasm?” Mrs Cage smiled wickedly and said,” it was great. Quick and I didn’t have to wait for you. I said,” Congratulations on the benefits of chastity. So how long are you going to keep me locked before I get an orgasm?” A sly smile came across her face. Her blue eyes told me she had wicked thoughts. Then her sexy lips said,” the whole month!” I’m in for a wild ride, and I’m so lucky that Mrs Cage is in the drivers seat. Wish me luck on night two.

MC, Sounds as if you have a caring KHer. I like her kink and look forward to hearing more about your journey. I'm about to join you as my installation is today however; I don't have any idea of my duration. Best

A HARD NIGHT last night.... Well last night was the second night. I awoke at four in the morning to an enormous erection. I woke myself and my lovely Mrs. Cage with groaning and writhing. I went back to sleep only to "rise again" to a second curved flagpole. It was a weird sensation. Not pain as in suffering a punch or a cut, but a crushing pain. I was bursting through the vents of the cage. It lasted some time and I could do nothing about it. Mrs Cage was a little annoyed,she said that she can't do this if I wake up every night like this. When morning came she told me that we shouldn't do this if it will continue to cause me pain. "It's not fun. I don't like seeing you in pain like that. It's not what I signed up for." "I agree, I said. But it will go away and I will get used to it." All the things I read say that it takes three nights. So here I am at night three. I know it's only day two, but I learned both from skiing yesterday and working around the house today that lotion and lube is mandatory. Much like sunscreen, you only remember that you needed it after you got burned. I'm a quick learner so I lubed before bed. Well in thinking about my situation, I really must say that I'm pleased and happy with how it is. The cage is relatively comfortable and I feel that I could do this for awhile. Although urinating is a learning curve! (Pun intended since I am wearing the curve). I like the feeling of seeing Mrs Cage smiling as she is realizing that she does, in fact, have my penis and it's entirely in her control. I am surprised when she tells me that "I'm not sure when I will free you. We'll have to wait and see." She is a planner, so I can tell that she has a plan that she is not sharing and she loves it. I told her that when the month is over, the cage comes off for the renegotiation. She isn't so sure. I really am not in a position to negotiate that, now am I? But so far, so good. Tomorrow is my first day at work. I'm a little nervous about this. I told Mrs. Cage that I am really glad that we had the weekend to adjust to this. I recommend this to all. I think having the two days has given me the ability to not focus on it so much tomorrow. While in bed,I told Mrs.Cage that I love her and that I'm okay with this. Holding my cage led to rubbing it a little while she watched. She told me to stop. We kissed instead. Then she rolled on top of me and rubbed herself against my cagedness. She kissed me with her beautiful hair falling all around my face. God she is beautiful. I know what it feels like to rub against her, tonight I couldn't feel it so much. I asked her if the cage bothered her. "No.It feels good. I like it."she said. I said, " Well, I have to tell you, I couldn't feel it so much." "That's too bad honey, because it felt really good". Oh the lust for her is driving me crazy, I know it will get worse. I kissed Mrs Cage good night and she has fallen asleep. Holding her cages penis as I finish this post. I don't care if she never unlocks me at this point. May all you men be as fortunate as I am. Goodnight and sleep soft, Mr. Cage.

Oh... hang out, it's fun but it does take some time for your body to get used to it! You can do it, I understand your kh's side. I'm not excited by causing my hubby pain so I hated seeing him wince. We've talked a lot about it and it's helped me that he explains how it feels. So keep talking! :)

Day three, and first day at work. I'm tired,she's tired. The day went well. I was only uncomfortable a few times. Started thinking that I shouldn't be pinched so much. Then realized the cage moves a bit more than it night I went to the site to see how it should look. Well, I found that they don't have a great deal of instruction. For how sensitive the area is and how many pieces there are, one would expect an assembly diagram. Well, I finally figured put that mrs. Cage had left a piece out. The second base part was not installed. She corrected it. It definitely is pinching less now. I did sleep much better last night. Mrs. Cage said I tossed and turned a lot. I did awake at 4:00am again. This time, my cock was so hard and my bladder was soooo full didn't know if was going to cum or pee. I sat half asleep on the toilet. I peed, a lot. Thinking: Well work went much better than I had feared. No one seemed to notice any wardrobe discrepancies, and it was fairly comfortable through the day. I think it feels very much like wearing an athletic cup all the time. So lady M is right, it will be okay. Will we like it so much that it will be a long term thing? Probably, as Mrs Cage has no plans for my release anytime soon. I can make a week with this, but I don't think three or four is going to be easy. Is this uncommon to get locked 24/7 right out of the starting gate? In any event, I am feeling a new and different love coming from within myself for my Mrs.Cage. I think I am seeing the transformation that so many others have. It's nice. I think I will love this new lifestyle. Questions: Is it uncommon to get locked 24/7 right put of the starting gate? What is my chance of sex next week? Where can I get A&D lube? Gotta go. Good night and Sleep soft, Mr Cage.

> member_3ae6f16cde wrote: > Questions: > Is it uncommon to get locked 24/7 right put of the starting gate? > What is my chance of sex next week? > Where can I get A&D lube? 24/7 is uncommon right off, usually takes a little to acclimated. No idea. What would you like the chance to be? Local grocery or drugstore, baby aisle.

Day 5: Today was a rough day in the cage. Has anyone had this happen to them: Firstly, you must know that I have been looking for a good method of lasting lubrication to minimize the uncomfortable pulling on my balls during the day. I used a generous amount of lotion before going to work today. I was at work, and noticed that the tube was turned sideways up on my thigh. When I was repositioning myself I felt something pull. I went to the bathroom and found that my balls had somehow slipped through the ring. They were free. The tube was still on. It fits snugly all the time. Well, I couldn't believe this happened since they are always so tight in the device. I immediately texted Mrs.Cage and told her what happened. I was able to resecure my balls to the cage with some tape (bandage tape from a first aid kit). I texted Mrs.Cage and told her that I had not removed the cage at all. She did not believe me. She thinks I slipped out on my way to work and masturbated. I did not! It certainly was an accident. I have grown to love wearing my cage and do not want to go against my keyholder's authority. Mrs.Cage has demanded that I post this to see what the replies would be. So she asks, 1) is this possible that it could happen by accident? 2) has it happened to anyone else? 3) what would be an appropriate form of punishment? We welcome your comments.

It absolutely happens! We haven't had a ball slip but usually the base ring size might need changing our the gap but it does happen and probably more often than you think! As you wear your device your body starts to change and adapt to the device. This is not something I would punish for and it's also hard for someone else too decide on a punishment for you. I wish you luck.

i have not had that happen, but i believe it could if gap size is too large. The one time i thought i came close was on a very cold day that resulted in "shrinkage." Also, with extended wear the scrotum can stretch, so things may have changed since you first fitted the device. i don't see this problem as a punishable offense, but i think you have sizing issues and would recommend trying the next gap size down. And i would keep reducing the gap size until you find one that is uncomfortable, and then you'll have identified the smallest gap you can wear comfortably. You might also need to try a smaller ring size, but i would start with sizing the gap first. And one last note: if you end up decreasing the ring size, you may have to increase gap size. You'll need to keep experimenting until you zero in on the perfect combo. There are lots of posts on this forum about fitting a device. Good luck!

> member_3ae6f16cde wrote:So she asks, > 1) is this possible that it could happen by accident? > 2) has it happened to anyone else? > 3) what would be an appropriate form of punishment? Yes, I had one ball slip through on a Steelheart that I had worn for a long time and thought the gap was good. I assume this was in the curve, if so all the more likely. If the gap is close it is very possible that it could flex and they would come out. It has happened to many of us at one point or another. I read once about a guy that had it fall off altogether and drop out his pants leg. That would be difficult to explain. It would seem that an appropriate punishment would be to get the gap adjusted properly and then lock those bastards back in for a good long stint. I don't think any other punishment is reasonable as you didn't purposefully cause this to happen.

Well today is the end of week oNe. Wow I can't believe ex made it. Yesterday I was constantly thinking about sex. We both are getting horny. Mrs Cage says its not time yet and I have to wait. She said its hard for her too. I told her that she can have an orgasm any way or time she wants. She Sid she wants my penis. Well, that's her decision. We will see what happens tonight and this week. I am really wondering what we will both be like next week. She still hasn't told me when she will let me out. I think maybe when we go to vegas in two weeks. So Thursday, I was so sexually frustrated that I told her so. Then I wrote on a yellow sticky,"I want to have sex with you!" I took a picture of it with her cell camera. Then I made it her wallpaper. Left the phone and waited. She got the message and the sneaky girl never said anything. Since she said nothing, I did another one later. Then she laughed and with that sexy sexy smirk she laughed and said,"stop sending those messages!" I know she liked it. I can't believe locknky is so paranoid about going out and being normal. I have been going about my usual business all week. I don't have a choice. And when I have asked Mrs Cage, she laughs and says, " sorry honey. That's not how it works. The answer is no." I had excercise class, work, and I even had a public speaking engagement. I was a little nervous about the speech. Standing out in the open wondering if my package was too big. At least Mrs. Cage checked and okay'd it this morning.

8 days of eroticism... So it's been a really Wild ride, here we are on the 8th day. Last night Mrs Cage and I were talking about how her pens needs a good cleaning. She said she would do it today. We were busy then tired, so I will be cleaned tomorrow. She will also install a smaller spacer as I have had two episodes of "lost balls". I asked her if she could remove the cage since it's been a week. She said "no". But I said, "well I am so horny, could you try milking my prostate? She made me get her vibrator and my prostate stimulator. She said I would go first then I was to please her. So she started playing with my balls. I was so excited. Just looking at her sexy body and beauty drives me wild! Now she is in complete control of my cock (really her cock) and it is mind blowing. So she inserts the probe and takes a vibrator to the base of my cock. I was overstimulated, then she decided to use the vibrator on me. Whoa. That has never happened. It's a vibrator that she doesn't like on her and she has her favorite pink rabbit, so she is now using the purple vibe on me. I felt a huge force in my ass and she tried to find the spot. She found it quite a few times, but it never stayed in the right place long enough for me to cum. I did feel myself leak a little something a few times though. It made me crave my own orgasm (which never came). It was quite funny because before she started she was saying that "I have to perform a procedure on you. I'm sorry but you will just have to get through it." After "the procedure", she made me use her pink rabbit and oral on her pussy. I love licking her and making her cum with my mouth. Being cuffed behind my back', I held the vibrator with my toes. She watched my caged cock bursting through the vents as she climaxed and had the most intense orgasm. She said she liked seeing me caged as she was led to orgasm. Man, this has really put a new twist on our sex. Tonight we were talking about how long I was going to be locked. She has a wicked smile that gives her great pleasure in not telling me. After last night with her incredible orgasm, I don't think she will be letting me out any time soon. She has the key on a necklace. The first part of the week she kept it hidden. This last part of the week, she has worn it boldly. It's always out and in plain view, this really drives me crazy but also gives me a great sense of her love and adventurous spirit. I think she is really enjoying her new position as keyholder. I'm certain I won't have an orgasm for another week and fearful that I may not have one for a long time! 2-3 months maybe. It's driving me crazy not to be able to touch myself or get an erection, or cum!

:D tonight marks day twenty-one of being locked up. Holy moly, I can't believe it! I truly didn't think she would do this to me. Three weeks straight right out of the gate must be a record. In the meantime, she only cleaned me up twice and changed the ring and spacer once. With the right fit, it does feel much more comfortable and tolerable. My nocturnal erections are now something I sleep through. But mornings are tough as I get erections soon upon waking. Mrs Cage devilishly teases me verbally. Her mantra has become, "it's not time yet. I will let you know when it's time." And so I have become hopeless with no knowledge of when that time will be. Two weeks ago it was frustrating, then I got a bit irritated the second week. This just made her more entertained and amused. This past week I have reached an acceptance of my fate. So now I will wait. I do ask for hints and possible time frames. But my wise and playful woman smiles and gives me her mantra. I wanted to have an orgasm so bad in weeks one and two. Now I would be happy just to have a full erection for one minute. Last Sunday, she gave me a clean up and shave in the tub. It was the first time anyone has shaved me. I have always shaved myself. She was delicate and caring and thorough. She hates putting the cage on. We had quick success when she made me hold frozen beans on the crotch and she used lotion. If it was easier to replace the lock, she might let me out more often. I told her that she has only taken it off three times and she needs practice. I say it will get easier the more she does it. Being that I had been so good and attentive to her, she gave me a brief handjob after my cleanup. So brief that she quit just as I was getting close to a full erection. That was torturous. So now, I have become used to sitting down to pee. We laugh because it takes me longer to pee than her. Now I just accept that I have no idea or control on when I might be let out to pee, touch myself, have sex, or anything really. I don't use lube as much as before. My balls are huge and very sensitive and tender. All the while, I feel absolutely nothing on my cock. I only feel the pressure as I squeeze from an attempted erection. I cannot wait to have sex with the most beautiful woman in the world, my key holder, Mrs. Cage. Sleep soft friends, Mr. Cage.

:shock: OMG- it's been awhile since I posted my journey. Well too much to write now and it's late. But I will share today's experience: Mrs Cage has had me locked for a few weeks straight. She went away on Black Friday for the weekend. I went Crazy horny over the weekend. All I could think about was release for sex as soon as she came home. She got home Sunday night. We were both exhausted from the weekend. I had the kids and their sports. So nothing happened. But this morning, she unlocked me. She said it is my reward for good behavior. I did a lot around the house and bought her a new washer and dryer. The washer broke on Thanksgiving. She was surprised by the dryer. So I was free today. The stipulation was this: as she took the lock from the cage, she held it up and said sternly, "Now if you misbehave and do anything inappropriate with yourself, this will go back on for month straight!" I looked at her with disbelief. She saw my look and repeated, "I WILL put you back in your cage for a month straight, do you understand?" Shit, I thought. Damn. I don't know if I can do that. I want the free day but I think it is worse. So I made it through the day. Very happy to stand to pee. And I didn't do anything inappropriate. When I climbed to bed, I did the unconscious natural adjustment and scratch to myself. She eyeballed me with her threatening look. "What are you doing right now? What was that for? " "what? Nothing." I replied. I felt a rush of anxiety thinking she may invoke her punishment of a month. To think that I made it all day, only to get locked for a month at the very end! She thought about it for a second or two. I felt it. She let it go. I breathed relief. She was so tired tonight. She fell asleep and didn't lock me up. Temptation beckons. What will I do? To hold myself or rub myself? That is the question. She sleeps. I wonder. If she wakes suddenly, there will be no hiding an erection. If she sleeps, there will be great sensations, and in the morning,guilt. I wish she had locked me tonight. This is worse. I will let you know what happens.

> member_56a3d1043 wrote: > The washer broke on Thanksgiving. She was surprised by the dryer. So I was free today > Kinda makes you wonder what she would do for a new refrigerator?:lol: > > member_3ae6f16cde wrote: > > I wish she had locked me tonight. This is worse. > > I sometimes have those same wishes.

:o and NOW.......duh,duh,duh........we enter a new dimension. A dimension not only of flesh and plastic, but a dimension of STEEL.....duh, duh, duh..... Yes, a Mature Metal Jailbird is on order. We have been in chastity for 9 months, and the turn from CB-X to MM has happened. I ordered the sizing rings, read so many posts, and tried ring sizes on for weeks, measuring my size and writing it down. The last thing I want is a misfit cage. So the order is made. Mrs. Cage has become removed from the cage since Christmas. And so the cage has been removed as well. We are on a holiday I suppose. I think I drive her crazy with it sometimes. She has said that I can be free until the jailbird arrives. This scares me. She could quite possibly be setting me up for a long period of e might say, "Oh honey, you were free for so long, now it's time to be put away for just as long." Perhaps she may go one step further and say,"Well, I hope you enjoyed your freedom because you just lost it for a long long time. And I really want you to enjoy your new cage!" Well, I must say, I have not cum on my own, but I have made it grown/groan on my own a few times. She has threatened me that any misbehavior would result in a month straight of lockup. So the term "misbehavior" has a subjective definition. What say you, readers? I say, " I cleaned myself thoroughly in the shower!" That ain't misbehavin' now is it? Well, time will tell. Good night, and sleep soft my caged friends. I will be sleeping hard for now.

I told Mrs Cage that the Jailbird will be 6 weeks to build. As much as I really enjoyed the freedom since Christmas, I didn't want to let her think the JB would be here in two weeks. She locked me up yesterday. It's funny to see how she changes, ever so subtly, when the cage is on. Something I think that only a mate could pick up on.

I told Mrs Cage that the Jailbird will be 6 weeks to build. As much as I really enjoyed the freedom since Christmas, I didn't want to let her think the JB would be here in two weeks. She locked me up yesterday. It's funny to see how she changes, ever so subtly, when the cage is on. Something I think that only a mate could pick up on. You have a nice chastity trial going. Our Jailbird took 4 weeks to show up, and was delivered by USPS. They ship out of Mid-Texas. The package was delivered while I was at work. My SO surprised me when I got home spinning it on her finger. Remember one thing with chastity to keep it going: What's in it for her??? Sincerely, FlyBoy Down & Locked...Check