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chastity and how the body reacts to stimuli

I've been wearing chastity devices longer than anyone else I know, and my longest time continuously locked up has been around a week. I took one day out for…

member_628f3ec99d 24 Aug 2026 #1

I’ve been wearing chastity devices longer than anyone else I know, and my longest time continuously locked up has been around a week. I took one day out for sex and am now back inside the device. When I watch porn or read erotic blogs, or even just think about something sexy or kinky, I start to get an erection. Having an erection while confined in a steel cage isn’t exactly pleasant. I’ve reached a point where I avoid looking at porn because I know it won’t feel good. After being in chastity for some time, do you develop an aversion to things that trigger erections, or do you simply stop responding the same way? I’m curious if getting conditioned while locked up prevents your penis from hardening until the cage is removed. Is this a gradual learning process or does it involve brain rewiring? Being confined with restrained erections is frustrating but also incredibly arousing at the same time. How and when do you learn to cope with this during long-term chastity?

member_208ad55e4c 26 Aug 2026 #2

Wow, great question! I can't wait to see the responses!

member_1f353e1d87 28 Aug 2026 #3

For me, it's like wiggling a loose tooth- can't stop doing it even though you know it's going to hurt.