having him clean up after himself in my vagina

I haven’t posted in awhile but I’m hoping for some encouragement or tips and tricks. Finn and I have been doing a lot of tease and denial without any release for him. I just love to tease his cock until he’s ready to cum but then back off and not let him have any release. Here’s the thing though, it’s almost reaching our decided time when he’s allowed to orgasm. What we’ve decided is that if he’s allowed to orgasm inside me, then he has to clean it up after. I’m going to tease and deny him over and over again until he’s desperate to orgasm and then when he’s ready I’m going to let him thrust into me and then release into me. After that he has to lie on the bed while I lower myself onto his face and he has to lick me clean while I cum all over his face. The problem is that as long as he doesn’t cum, the idea is really hot to him but as soon as he orgasms, then he gets turned off by the reality of it. Only he really wants to do this for me since he wants to worship my pussy in all states including when it’s full of his cum. How do we get over the hurdle of his sudden drop in his desire to do this right after he cums? I’m just asking out of curiosity if anyone does this and if they have ever faced this issue. Thanks.

Tie him to the bed, that'll take most of his choice out of it.

I would agree to remove the choice. If you immediately move over his face, and tell him what he is to do I bet he will comply. My wife tends to let me get away without cleaning her, even though I want to do it until after I've cum. If she made it non-negotiable and planted her filled pussy on my face, I bet I would just do it.

I can certainly empathize. Post orgasm the thrill of licking up my own cum is gone. I look forward to hearing what works for you.

From the male prospective with the same issue, acting quick and not really giving a choice or chance to change the mind is the best way to keep the thought there enough for him to follow through. After a few times, it maybe the same or get easier to do. The way I got to experience it was my wife on top (back when she was on the pill- years ago), and soon as I finished she pulled out, and had herself in my face before I could do too much or think much. Since she hadn't had a orgasm, I knew there was no way out and the experience was great and after I still find it extremely erotic. Now with her off the pill now, condoms are used and that pretty much kills any chance of that.

Our chastity break is almost over. My wife has started collecting my cum in a shot glass, then freezing it. She is using an old film canister (remember those?) to keep it sealed up in the freezer. She plans to collect 2 more times, then chastity will begin again. She wants to keep me chaste long enough that I will be super horny and so desperate that I will agree to lick all the saved up cum out of her pussy. Like everyone has stated here, once I go I have no interest. However, I think this time I will gladly do it for her and give her an orgasm to earn my own. I'm a little nervous about how much there will be though.

> member_476ab6a97a wrote:Tie him to the bed, that'll take most of his choice out of it. This was going to be my suggestion... tie him down and just do it. If he's a good boy though, he should sit there and you don't give him a choice... sit on his face and make him do it.

Learning to eat it is a bit harder in chastity since you can't help him "practice". Before we decided to lock me up, we did play (she was top, of course) and she would masturbate me and then feed me part or all of the cum. I resisted at first. What guy *wants* to eat it after he cums. But a few swats to my balls got my mouth open. I didn't like it but I survived. She likes to ride me and after I come, she moves up and covers my face with her pussy. She is usually facing my feet so if encouragement is needed, she can slap my balls. It really didn't take long to learn to clean up after myself. Nothing a few ball swats won't cure.

> Lady M wrote: > > member_476ab6a97a wrote:Tie him to the bed, that'll take most of his choice out of it. > This was going to be my suggestion... tie him down and just do it...you don't give him a choice... sit on his face and make him do it. I am firmly in the 'tie him down' camp. After I have an orgasm, I just can't do it on my own. If I have any choice at all in the matter, it isn't going to happen, no matter how 'hot' it seemed beforehand. Being tied down, though, *knowing* what is going to happen, and *knowing* that I won't be able to get out of it is super, SUPER 'hot'. Being *forced*, no choice- ball-squeezing/slapping/pulling or hair-pulling while sitting on my face is the way to go [for me]. I may not 'like' it at the time, but it's even 'hotter' later- knowing that she *can* do it, that she *will* do it, that she *likes* doing it is massively erotic...

Tie him camp for me too. What worked for us was that she told me at the start what was going to happen but never mentioned it at all during intercourse. Imediatly after comming she just got up and sat on my face and let it dribble out. It was vety quick the first time and quiet but like most things once you get past that hurdle it improves very quickly just like your confidence will to do it. My wife loves it when we do this but she saves it for special occasions.

The first time Mrs. Edge tried this, I was tied down. There wasn't any forewarning. ... ing-scene/ Since then, she has done this a few times while she's laying down (her preferred position) and just firmly pushing my head down between her legs, and not taking "But..." for an answer.

We are in a bit of a unique situation. We live in a poly relationship, with my wife and I, and cherry living with us, but in her own space. Cherry and I are allowed kink, but not actual humping. My wife hates cum, and I am usually denied or in chastity of some sort. Cherry's job is to occasionally empty me out. We are just finishing up 2.5 months of me going orgasmless, and had been discussing what to do going forward. I've been doing Tantric/Karezza for so long, that I actually prefer orgasmless sex/kink, but I do still crave orgasm often. I like rituals and things that challenge me. Cherry used to get very upset if I didn't orgasm, back when we first started playing together. Now she actually loves seeing me in sexual agony. I asked her if she was looking forward to me cumming, and she commented "Yes, but it is messy". That's when a light went on. I loooove worshipping her pussy. We don't want mess, and I love predicaments and things that are difficult. We both loved the idea of me masturbating, and then penetrating her as I orgasm, then have her straddle my face and have her orgasm that way. We're just hoping I can actually go through with it, and stick to this as our way of emptying me out. She loves penetration, which for us is very rare. I love pussy worship and get to cum, but not without consequences. Will update if all goes well. Like one poster commented,it hopefully gets easier and becomes routine. Fingers crossed!!

I used to think it was disgusting, but now I kinda look forward to licking afterward. It's really not bad, especially when mixed with my KH juices. She gets super wet and leaks a lot. She also squirts, so the ratio of semen to her sweet juices is pretty high. I've had just mine, which is not good at all, so if I am to consume it, I prefer to lick it from her. I suggest giving your lady several orgasms first, so there is something to dilute it.

My wife, the cunning and devious KH that she is, has me eating my own cum very eagerly. What she does is edge/ruin me so I only leak out a little at a time, but my cock it still raging. She scoops it up with her fingers and puts in on her pussy then straddles me. Due to the fact that I am still super horny from not having an full blown orgasm, I don't even hesitate to lick her clean and her fingers too. I will even beg her for it if she tells me to. She will edge me over and over and straddle me again and again until she can't get any more cum out even though I am still hornier than hell. This had made me comfortable enough to lick her clean if I get to cum inside her but I enjoy doing it more if I haven't had a full orgasm. But then again, I can't even remember the last time she let me have a full blown orgasm.

> member_1f353e1d87 wrote: > > Lady M wrote: > > > member_476ab6a97a wrote:Tie him to the bed, that'll take most of his choice out of it. > > This was going to be my suggestion... tie him down and just do it...you don't give him a choice... sit on his face and make him do it. > I am firmly in the 'tie him down' camp. > After I have an orgasm, I just can't do it on my own. If I have any choice at all in the matter, it isn't going to happen, no matter how 'hot' it seemed beforehand. > Being tied down, though, *knowing* what is going to happen, and *knowing* that I won't be able to get out of it is super, SUPER 'hot'. Being *forced*, no choice- ball-squeezing/slapping/pulling or hair-pulling while sitting on my face is the way to go [for me]. > I may not 'like' it at the time, but it's even 'hotter' later- knowing that she *can* do it, that she *will* do it, that she *likes* doing it is massively erotic... This matches me perfectly. I like being made to do it and will not do it unless made to do it. I am turned on because she is making me do it and there is little I can do about it. Without being made to do it I will not do it but I enjoyed being forced to do it. She primarily makes me do this when I have cum when she has told me not to.

He did it! He's already been quite worked up for weeks so we got him to the point where he was begging and then we decided to go for it. Luckily for him only a little leaked out of me but I think that's a good thing for a first experience. Thanks for all the replies and encouragement!

I so want to do this and I know my wife would be keen but after her orgasm she is too sensitive!!

> member_2daf0e6c79 wrote:He did it! > He's already been quite worked up for weeks so we got him to the point where he was begging and then we decided to go for it. > Luckily for him only a little leaked out of me but I think that's a good thing for a first experience. > Thanks for all the replies and encouragement! That's great! But, um...could we please have a little more detail? Like, about the "**We** got him to the point...", and was he tied or did one hold him down?