Locked and Teased

So hubby won himself total lockdown until August (no out, no erections) and has been teased pretty intensely over the last few days. Today he’s realizing he’s in big time subby mood and would pretty much do anything I ask right now. I happen to love this as I feel my aggressive, very dominant, controlling mood kicking in as well! It sometimes is a build up thing but sometimes it’s like someone flipped a switch for us. The best part is that it seems to happen to both of us at the same time. Do you guys feel that flip sometimes or is it more gradual for you? KH’s or subs? Is there anything in particular that your KH or sub does to make you feel that mood kick in? Once it kicks in is there some thing you guys do to keep the overly submissive mood going? :)

Personally speaking I need a constant reminder to stay in the right headspace, especially for longer periods of chastity. The chastity cage works but "lock and forget" doesn't. I need to be teased, spanked, or generally dominated at least once every few days otherwise I begin to loose the mind state. Its not so much of an issue over a couple of weeks but when we start to stretch to a month or more it becomes more important. generally Im only allowed out for pleasuring herself and for washing - Im in a cbxxx until my MM jailbird gets here.

The thing that "starts my engine" is what i'm told to do when preparing MsM's bath (i bathe Her at least twice a week and She has Her "playtime" immediately afterwards then sends me to bathe (locked of course) in Her water). i never know if i'm going to be told to unlock, clean myself and re-lock, or stay unlocked, and/or to dress in Her special panties She puts out for me. So, from that point on until after i've bathed myself i'm very definitely in d-space. MsM is slowly getting into being more dominant as this is not natural for Her, but i hope She answers here as well. She is certainly starting to get into the discipline side more and is now looking at more milking options for the future. d