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Chastity ring chafing and swelling issues

Since dropping some pounds and giving chastity another go, I've stopped having my testicles turn quite so dark. That said, the ring seems to keep rubbing…

member_991c0fe845 24 Aug 2026 #1

Since dropping some pounds and giving chastity another go, I’ve stopped having my testicles turn quite so dark. That said, the ring seems to keep rubbing against me now. It mainly bothers the lower part and left side of the band. I’ve experimented with lubricant as well as Bath & Body Works lotion, but neither really fixed it. I’m almost ready to give a week or two in the device another shot, yet the chaffing usually forces me out after just two or three days. Got any advice? My setup is a Holy Trainer v2 normal tube paired with a 45mm ring.

member_b195396d43 25 Aug 2026 #2

A bit of unease is pretty standard. Most of us begin with something like a CB and work through it, so the HT2 feels like heaven once you get there. You'll adjust to it eventually!!! d

member_991c0fe845 25 Aug 2026 #3

Alright then, I suppose I’ll just keep pushing forward.

member_25cff16817 26 Aug 2026 #4

> member_991c0fe845 wrote:I seem to keep chaffing from the ring. I’d suggest: 1) Give A&D Ointment a shot. Put it on several times daily. It’s thick, so it sits on top of the skin rather than soaking in like many lotions do. 2) Experiment with different underwear. The sweet spot between too much motion and not enough varies for everyone.

member_991c0fe845 26 Aug 2026 #5

> member_25cff16817 wrote: > > member_991c0fe845 wrote:I seem to keep chaffing from the ring. > I’d suggest: > 1) Trying A&D Ointment. Apply it a couple of times a day. Its heavy stuff so it doesn't absorb into the skin like many lotions do. > 2) Try different underwear. The balance between too much movement and not enough movement can vary for us all. 1. I’ve been using lotion, but I couldn’t track down that medicated variety mentioned elsewhere. I’ll look for this A&D stuff. 2. Since it’s the weekend... I usually walk around or lounge about naked at home... so maybe I need something with more support?

member_0e30acdf47 27 Aug 2026 #6

What sort of lube are you using? Water-based ones don’t cut it for me. Silicone holds up longer and is incredibly slick.

member_b195396d43 28 Aug 2026 #7

> member_991c0fe845 wrote:I'm usually walking or lounging around the house naked since it is the weekend... so I suppose I need something more supporting then? I absolutely cannot go without underwear, and the better support, the happier I am. Without them, everything "drags down" (even with a lighter HT2). So for me, good supportive undies are key; they keep things in place and less visible under shirts. d