How We Began Our New Relationship

For my debut post on this forum, I want to share how my wife and I kicked off our journey into chastity play. Almost a year ago, my wife decided to indulge some of my fantasies/fetishes. She asked me to help her get dressed in lingerie, along with a pair of sexy knee-high boots (my favorite!). Then she requested that I lick her until near orgasm before we had sex. The slow, almost ritualistic process of dressing her, combined with her telling me to pleasure her completely blew my mind! For us, this kind of domination play is more about her control and my worship of her as a woman than the whole ‘whips and chains’ aspect. Our play has progressed into me occasionally licking her to orgasm, but without intercourse or any pleasure on my part. We still have a healthy sex life, but I am denied at least once out of every two or three times we have sex. I also love that she randomly denies me based on her mood. We are going to try chastity play with a device, and we recently ordered a CB6000. It has yet to arrive, but my imagination is running wild! I’m the one who had to do a little coaxing, and I used web sites like this to help her understand the fantasy. I believe she will really take to this because she is the one who first came up with the idea of denying me. I also gave her suggestions of things I could do while I was locked, like massaging her, licking her, and even polishing her boots (she gave a sexy giggle and sheepishly grinned when I told her that). She told me she has a few ideas as well…this could get interesting! Anyway, we would love to hear others’ suggestions or comments. This is still new to us, even though we have been married for almost a decade (we are in our 30s). It has been a great way to spark some new passion!