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New member figuring out his chastity setup

My wife and I have recently started exploring chastity. We picked up a device that we both really like. The other morning, she asked me to wear it while…

member_3a96ab0971 24 Aug 2026 #1

My wife and I have recently started exploring chastity. We picked up a device that we both really like. The other morning, she asked me to wear it while running errands, which excited me. She secured the lock, and I took the dog out for a quick bathroom break. When I returned, my erection had subsided because the ring slipped off my penis. Being more of a grower than a shower probably played a part in this. Does anyone else deal with their chastity cage slipping off? Are there others who can relate to this issue?

member_feda7f789f 25 Aug 2026 #2

Hello and welcome! This is actually quite common for beginners. If you tell us which specific device model you're using, we can offer more targeted advice. The core issue usually comes down to the space between your ring and cage being either too wide or having too much give, letting your testicle slip out. If it's a CB series model, try swapping in a smaller spacer. Also, double-check that the locking post is secure; you might need one of those small washer-style spacers placed right against the tube before inserting the lock pin. You should have to pull everything snugly together when you insert the key or bolt—if there isn't enough tension, flexing occurs and this problem happens.