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What tops your list of things to miss while free from the lock?

The Jailbird is currently away getting resized so I have been thinking a good bit about what I miss when it's gone. I really miss the symbolism of it. It's…

member_4d8b2f86af 24 Aug 2026 #1

The Jailbird is currently away getting resized so I have been thinking a good bit about what I miss when it’s gone. I really miss the symbolism of it. It’s become a constant reminder of my commitment to my KH. The commitment is still here when I am not wearing it but it’s not quite the same. What about you? What do you miss most when you aren’t locked up?

member_220b6c4b39 24 Aug 2026 #2

I miss the little rituals. I get locked up each morning and then hand KH the key. Before bed, she hands back the key. These rituals form excellent bookends to the day.

member_991c0fe845 25 Aug 2026 #3

I miss just having an erection and not having it tug on your testicles.

member_bc87d71103 27 Aug 2026 #4

Don't really miss it as mine tends to get uncomfortable or I get worried someone will see it. Much more calm without it. However I do miss the "held" feeling, like someone is teasingly holding it yet still not getting enough sensation to do more than leak precum. So I do miss the dripping after a few short days. Without the cage it takes a lot longer to reach that feeling even with a lot of t&d