Massage Dilemma

So I am heading out for a massage today. My KH asked if she wanted me locked up, and suggested that staying unlocked would be better to avoid any embarrassment in case something gets noticed. Just remember, I’ll still have my boxers on. The other side of the coin is that without the lock, I’m worried about getting a massive erection! Especially since the therapist is quite attractive! It’s the constant struggle with these choices!

I visit an affordable massage place where incidental contact in the genital area happens often. I'm fairly certain they would feel the firmness of a cage and might be quite surprised by it. In my opinion, it's probably best to keep them out of your kink dynamic. I've had partial erections during massages before, but that doesn't seem like such a big deal. It could even be flattering for the therapist ~ after all, you can't really control it!