@ one year and later on, does the experience shift?
After four months in the CM mode, I feel like this is one of the most enduring sensations I’ve ever experienced. But what happens when you get past that…
After four months in the CM mode, I feel like this is one of the most enduring sensations I’ve ever experienced. But what happens when you get past that initial period, say at a year or more? Does it shift significantly?
We are heading in that direction. I just wrapped up three months of lockup and entered a four-to-five-month window without orgasm. My wife often complains about how I act after I cum, while I insist she’s the one who triggers me when I’m perfectly content staying locked for a year. The catch is that her love makes it hard to keep me in there too long, though she’s getting more accustomed to it. Our plan is for me to release mid-summer, then again around Christmas or New Year's Eve, before attempting a full twelve-month stretch. We still use the same safe word from our BDSM days, so if I truly need an exit, I have that option. For us, chastity isn't about punishment or reward; we do it because my wife prefers me this way, and I prefer myself too. It’s a partnership where we both strive to maintain my locked state.
For what it's worth, reaching the one-year mark has made a huge difference for MsM and me. She has become more dominant and controlling, while I’ve reached a point where orgasm matters much less than arousal itself. I realize that my best way to stay aroused is by completing the tasks she sets for me; this makes her feel good about keeping me on edge so I continue doing what she asks! On top of that, our personal communication has become completely honest—it’s really a win-win situation!! The longer we practice chastity together, the better it gets!!