Best methods of being teased or doing the teasing

I’ve been curious—what’s the best method for getting teased? Or, if you’re holding the key, what do you prefer when teasing?

"What kind of teasing are we talking about? Is it visual? Spoken words? Mental play? Physical sensation? A mix of any or all of these options?"

"I really enjoy verbal teasing regarding my state in chastity and how long I'll remain locked. Edging and denial are also big favorites for me. When I'm aroused, a bit of spanking is something new we've been experimenting with that I like. My spouse isn't heavily into much spoken teasing herself, but she has always loved watching my reactions to the control involved in edging. She's discovered she enjoys spanking too—perhaps even a little more than expected. In my opinion, most women don't fully appreciate how effective occasional verbal teasing can be."