Let the punishment match the offense

I’m hunting for additional punishment concepts. Since I really enjoy being denied, wouldn’t the opposite be: having to masturbate right in front of her immediately, with no teasing or buildup? I’ve noticed some folks just add more time without a release, but if we crave captivity that doesn’t quite fit. We’d also like to try spanking, though it would have to wait until we are alone in the house which isn’t very often. Any other thoughts, ideas, or current practices you do would be appreciated.

I like the idea of having to masturbate in front of my wife...since I have hidden it from her for years. If she were to make me do it in front of her...it would be completely embarrassing and definitely feel like a punishment. However, as with all things in our sex life...MrsL makes the final decision.