Who handles placing the cage onto its wearer?

When it’s time to put the cage on who does it? My device should be arriving in a few days and I’m getting anxious. I told my keyholder that I want her to always handle putting it on and taking it off, but I suspect this might be a bit too much to ask. So, who actually does it? Does your keyholder do it every time, or only when she’s in the mood for tease and denial? I have a feeling she’ll toss me the keys once utility becomes necessary.

If you are new to this experience, I highly recommend that you put it on yourself until you feel quite comfortable and accustomed to wearing the gadget. Depending on various factors, getting it off and back on isn't always super easy for someone else.

Yes, unfortunately it is a bit unrealistic really. Besides there sometimes being circumstances where having her do so is simply impractical and occasions when she just plain doesn't want to participate, often because she's not in the mood (yes, it happens!) there are physical issues as well. I've been locked for about five weeks now, on most but not all days, evenings and nights. While it is lovely to have her 'ministrate' over me, there are times when we need to do it together due to pinching or trapping of skin or hairs. I keep myself shaved as much as possible, and Mrs Y has agreed to help with that and spot stray or hard-to-find hairs etc., but there are always some seemingly left behind, and getting even a tiny bit of skin caught while she tries to close and lock the assembly warrants some shared care. I use the CB6000s and suspect that such issues may be less potentially "sharp" in other designs (?) but we usually end with her putting the padlock through the pin and snapping it shut - an awesome moment:-)

Especially during the first twenty times or so when you are so excited that staying flaccid enough to get it on is next to impossible. Having her try to put it on would make it COMPLETELY impossible.:D

I always think that putting the device on should be a job for the wearer and that the important issue is who clicks the lock - which is a task for the keyholder. That is how we usually do it.

I always put it on myself. She is very concerned that she would hurt me and actually, depending on how tight my scrotum is at the time, she probably would cause some pain. As for closing the lock...she has made it very clear that it is her duty and only her duty.

About the same here. My Rikers really only comes off every 3 or 4 days for a supervised shower; otherwise it's on 24/7 until release day. Sometimes she likes to remove it and I usually put it back on since she is afraid I might be pinched. But she ALWAYS removes and replaces the padlock, no exceptions. I am not allowed to touch the key. We both like to hear the 'click' when she closes the lock. It's a ceremonial representation of her power over me.

> member_7a9ab98908 wrote: We both like to hear the 'click' when she closes the lock. It a ceremonial representation of her power over me. Yes - exactly; the click and removal of the key is the "special moment".

I put on the device and MrsL insists on putting on the lock or seal. She also insists on unlocking it herself. Now, there are times when I have to do it but those are few and far between. When I travel, we FaceTime when I change locks.