New to Male Chastity

Hi there! My girlfriend and I are thinking about bringing male chastity into our dynamic. We’ve dabbled with it before; I’ve worn the device for up to eight days at a time.

Since we work, we usually keep things professional during the day by taking it off while out. But as soon as I walk through the front door, back on it goes.

We’re considering extending those locked periods and would love some tips on where to begin—things like how long to stay locked in, frequency of teasing, and whether any kind of release is okay during that time.

My girlfriend loves making me ache; she enjoys having control. So perhaps you could offer advice specifically for this aspect?

Thanks for your thoughts!:D

If you take the device off while working, it doesn't really count. You'll likely end up wanking in your car or on the toilet during breaks. True chastity implies being locked 24/7. Only then does your Keyholder (KH) have genuine authority over your orgasms. Instead of worrying about how frequently you might get a release, consider how many orgasms *she* needs to feel satisfied. Watch out for unexpected moments too.

> member_c91ee92547 wrote: > If you are unlocked while working, it will not function. you will wank on the toilet or in your car. chastity means locked 24/7. Seriously? Are you suggesting that we lack so much self-discipline that we're ready to rub one out right there in the office bathroom or our vehicle? Could I apply for a job at your place? I’d be thrilled to have all that uninterrupted free time! Chastity doesn’t "mean" anything fixed; it means whatever you and your partner decide. I used to spend most of my time locked, but now I rarely do. Somehow, I manage not to wank while driving home. Other guys probably feel the same. Drop the notion that there’s only one correct method here. It’s meant to be enjoyable! It’s a way for you two to share some sexual fun together. Stop trying to set records or mimic someone else's routine. Sheesh.:roll: