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chstbambam A new experience with a plastic numbered lock

I'm a 28-year-old guy who has been wearing a device for about three and a half years. I've been searching for a strong Master Keyholder but haven't had much…

member_59bc1dc98c 25 Aug 2026 #1

I’m a 28-year-old guy who has been wearing a device for about three and a half years. I’ve been searching for a strong Master Keyholder but haven’t had much success; folks are either too intense or not strict enough with their submissives. As a result, I only keep myself locked occasionally, though within two weeks of locking up, I usually give in to let out my seed.

I own several devices, but mostly rely on my jailbird, mini birdlocked, and the holytrainer v2. Once, I hid the keys away in difficult spots: inside a lockbox placed high up in a hard-to-reach corner of my locked shed, with those specific keys then moved to an old barn across the property, hanging on a tall nail near the ceiling. The effort was meant to discourage me from retrieving them and unlocking, but I discovered that desperation wins out.

Online Keyholders often insisted I use plastic numbered locks as proof of compliance, asking for daily photos. I avoided them because they seemed like an unnecessary expense and hassle—single-use items when I already have durable padlocks and keys available. In December, I purchased a budget-friendly silicone chastity cage that included some plastic locks with it. I held off using them initially, worried that if one broke within two days of putting it on, I’d feel foolish wasting a perfectly good lock that could never be reused.

Today, however, I had an insight: perhaps my hesitation to cut these cheap locks will actually help me stay locked! So I put on my mini birdlocked and slipped in a plastic lock quickly before doubt crept back in. Then I headed off to work while my mind wandered, searching for excuses to snip it open immediately. But the fear of wasting that one-time-use lock kept pulling me back; this is its only chance ever to keep a boy in chastity. That’s when it clicked—using these plastic locks might finally be the method for me. Because I have a limited supply, I value each one more.

Now that I’m a caged boy again with a lock I don’t want to destroy, hopefully I can remain locked for an extended period! Perhaps the right Master will arrive too to ensure it happens:D