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Watch out for that gap

I’ve picked up a new device and I’m really enjoying it. During the day, I barely notice it and don’t feel like taking it out, but at night it jolts me awake…

member_25ceb4a98e 25 Aug 2026 #1

I’ve picked up a new device and I’m really enjoying it. During the day, I barely notice it and don’t feel like taking it out, but at night it jolts me awake every hour. I get up to urinate and then go back to sleep for another hour.

It seems to be an issue with the gap (3/8 inches). I mentioned to Mark that my scrotum hangs low, which is usually true, but when erect they pull closer to the body. It looks like they’re getting drawn into the gap and causing a lot of pain.

Does anyone else have a similar experience? I’ve been trying it for three nights now without improvement, so right now I’m only wearing the contender during the day, where I love it. It’s far superior to the holy trainer and also performs better while cycling.

member_1c9a0b0efc 26 Aug 2026 #2

Nighttime erections are always tricky. If your testicles are rising into the gap, nearly popping through, they might be getting pinched quite tightly as they move in. That pinch is the worst pain I’ve ever felt with a chastity device. However, if the opening is just too wide, my balls would slide through almost without sensation. It seems there’s an ideal spot where your soft testicles compress enough to slip through, which creates serious scrotal torture. Making the gap smaller solved it for me.