Echobravo our beginning story

I had spent quite some time browsing chastity porn and reading stories. It started with altarboy’s website back in the day, then more recently on Tumblr as this kink seemed to take off - I was just a typical male looking at wanking material. For reasons I can’t pinpoint, I always found male chastity arousing. I didn’t exactly plan it! The evening began with dinner out - I had an extra drink or two compared to usual - and then we headed home. We were relaxing on the couch watching TV when somehow I decided to bring up what I’d been looking at. I was nervous. Sweating. Stammering. My wife is incredibly patient though. I explained that I’d found something online - hot, kinky, and quite unusual. You can order a device to lock around your member to prevent erections and hand over control to your partner. The woman takes charge. She was slightly put off at first, but my wife is very open-minded. She said sure enough - go ahead and get one. We started calling it the Cage. The device arrived. We experimented a bit. I would be locked for a few days, attend to her orally, and then we’d enjoy great sex together. I thought I was in charge back then. This routine continued for a while. It was cool and hot. Male fantasies fulfilled - all good. As parents of two kids, this added spice to our lives. Everything worked out well. One day, months into the arrangement, I received a text: “I have decided to institute some new rules in our setup. I will explain them when you return home.” My wife became interested in saying hot things during sex within our new dynamic and stumbled upon Female Led Relationship (FLR) websites. She had an epiphany - she holds the key, so she makes the rules. Our previously vanilla wife really liked that concept. I came home to find the house empty; she’d sent the kids out for an hour. We sat down for The Talk and set Rules. Was I supposed to exercise? Clean the bathrooms? Empty the cats’ litter boxes? Wait - how does this relate to sex? The male and female perspectives on sex differ quite a bit. In my mind, it was all about femdom sex, denial, and release. But in our case now, my wife (now KH) decided to leverage that sexual kink to improve things from her point of view. I’m the one exercising. Cleaning litter boxes. Handling chores. She has also taken a very active interest in orgasm control. Things seem better overall - more updates to follow.