Keyholder Guides - alright, yes, exactly
So ... after browsing around online today, I stumbled upon yet another one of those absurd “How to be a Keyholder” guides. It followed that same…
So … after browsing around online today, I stumbled upon yet another one of those absurd “How to be a Keyholder” guides. It followed that same now-standard and generally unhelpful narrative as most others I’ve seen. However, recent shifts in my own perspective made me think about something … It spent some time explaining to the ladies that if they lock their man in chastity for long enough, he’ll begin doing all the chores happily. They told the ladies that he does this because he wants her to let him out and give him an orgasm. And I thought to myself … I was locked up over the weekend … and I did all of the chores plus some extra ones … But I did them because I want her to KEEP me in chastity and NOT let me have an orgasm. As I read around the web, guys giving advice to other guys always mention that when she locks you up, you suddenly become more helpful, and when she unlocks you, you make a point of being less helpful. I know there is definitely a part of my brain that switches over when I’m denied orgasms, which is further enhanced by the cage. I start seeing things more from her perspective, wanting to make her happier and more relaxed while conserving her energy. But there’s a little part of me that keeps looking even further for ways she can believe I am better caged and denied. I’m never hoping that she’ll let me out. Where is that “Guide for Keyholders”? The one that says “wait ‘til he’s begging, and then say ‘no’ and wait two more weeks”. The one that says “if he’s begging to be let out, you’re doing it right, don’t stop.”
Right here! Clear and concise. Keep it simple.