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How long has your marriage lasted?

It feels like most folks here are tied down in marriage. I’m wondering how long everyone has been at it? Plus, when did chastity enter the scene? I’ve been…

member_037138eec2 26 Aug 2026 #1

It feels like most folks here are tied down in marriage. I’m wondering how long everyone has been at it? Plus, when did chastity enter the scene?

I’ve been married for 12 years, and we only really started exploring chastity (to our current level of involvement) earlier this year.

member_b195396d43 26 Aug 2026 #2

Married for 43 years total, with the last 4 including added chastity!! MsM’s ld

member_4591ac481a 26 Aug 2026 #3

31 years together in all, married for 22 of those, and currently doing the lock up play for about 5 years.

member_20d1378661 26 Aug 2026 #4

Married for 41 years and caged for roughly 9 months now.

member_63091bd353 26 Aug 2026 #5

25 Years married so far, with about 4 of those spent in the cage.

member_2cd0f906a6 26 Aug 2026 #6

Together for 18 years; we’ve been having chastity play and dealing with ruined orgasms intermittently for about 6 of those.

member_1f353e1d87 26 Aug 2026 #7

We've shared nearly 35 years together. We made it official around 19 years ago, and chastity came into the picture off and on shortly after that...though I’d been interested in it for a few years prior.

member_c5a7c75d7b 27 Aug 2026 #8

39 excellent years together, except my otherwise wonderful wife refuses to play along.

member_56a3d51043 27 Aug 2026 #9

26 great years:D 7+ under lock and key. Looking like maturity is the majority.:lol:

member_e37d0ef4a6 27 Aug 2026 #10

15 years together. 9 years married. Orgasm denial play and chastity play for 12 to 14 years. Minor play. Three to six weeks of denial, and cage time measured in hours. Got more serious nine months ago. Six to twelve weeks of orgasm denial, and cage time measured in days (almost weeks).

member_526dfaf3fb 27 Aug 2026 #11

We have been together since 1974, married since 1981 and I've been in chastity since April of this year.

member_a88e0f3d5f 27 Aug 2026 #12

We've been married for 25 years. I first introduced chastity into our relationship around 3 1/2 years ago but first attempt failed. Brought it up again this year and so far it seems to be clicking.

member_b6dfe42069 27 Aug 2026 #13

Been married for 22 years and have been locked up for about 85% of the last five and a half years All41

member_c219571518 27 Aug 2026 #14

Great question! And this thread seems to have elicited more responses, faster than almost all others. Together 34 years, married 31, chastity (on and off) for 3+ years.

member_b764c32ac7 27 Aug 2026 #15

Married 11 years, together 14 years. Just hit the 2 year mark for chastity.

member_53df7da97a 27 Aug 2026 #16

Married for 30+ years and in chastity for the last 2. locked up 24/7 and let out for the occasional orgasm. last time was 10 weeks locked.

member_abd7d46b0f 27 Aug 2026 #17

Married 25 years and we’re new to chastity.

member_0ddd67c68f 28 Aug 2026 #18

Was married 26 years before my vows were fulfilled. I’m now a widower experimenting with chastity with my girlfriend/Keyholder. I could never approach my wife with the suggestion. For us chastity was between the ears only. I think she may have enjoyed holding my key.

member_38d66853f1 28 Aug 2026 #19

25 years married and just over 4 years in chastity. My orgasms have been steadily reducing whilst Mrs Chaste has even more! And we love it. Less orgasms but lots of teasing, which is as it should be.