Braddogg4345 A Journey Through Male Chastity and Female Led Relationship

Here is my well-deserved report on how my wife and I have navigated chastity and an FLR together.

We got into male chastity roughly two years back. When I first brought it up to her, she was surprisingly open to the idea. So we bought a cage, picked up some reading material on the subject, and started this new phase of our marriage.

I could dive deep into how chastity has revitalized our marriage and boosted our sex life, but you all know the drill here. We’re in it together, so I’ll skip the usual details.

About six months after we began practicing male chastity with happiness, I introduced my wife to female-led relationships. This didn’t feel too difficult since I understand her personality well. She is an alpha woman who enjoys being in charge. While I present myself as an alpha guy on the outside, deep down I crave control and submission. Before this shift, we were pretty much equals; the FLR changed that dynamic.

I took over the household chores my wife used to handle. Even the tasks we usually procrastinated on got done quickly by me. We made a spreadsheet for my duties with daily, weekly, and monthly items, which I would check off as completed.

We established a reward and punishment system tied to how well I perform and behave. If I complete all chores and act up, I get teased rewards: she might let me worship her body, shower together, grant me an orgasm, or unlock my cage for some playtime.

If I mess up in performance or behavior, punishments follow. My wife has developed a wide range of penalties. These can include beatings with a belt, flogger, riding crop, paddle, or just slapping the hell (as she puts it) out of my face. Confinement is another option: being tied to the bed, handcuffed in the closet, or locked in a humbler. Timeframes for confinement have ranged from 15 minutes up to four and a half hours. Other penalties include cold showers, floor sleeping, physical exercises like push-ups, Icy Hot handjobs, and extra chores.

Using my performance sheets, we hold what we call discipline sessions every two weeks. My wife reviews how I did over the last fortnight and adjusts our session accordingly. She uses a sliding scale balancing pleasure against pain: better behavior means more pleasure and less pain; worse behavior flips that balance.

Discipline sessions are easily my favorite part of this setup, resembling direct Domination scenes. My wife often wears sexy black leather outfits during these times, going full force with any tool she has for either pleasure or pain. She clearly loves it, letting her dominant side shine through. Occasionally, we even move the action to our outdoor patio!

As time goes on in this Chastity/FLR dynamic, my wife’s control over our lives grows stronger. She now fully manages our finances. My paycheck goes straight into an account under her name alone. Our savings are also solely hers. She holds the only key to our safe deposit box and is the sole holder of checks and debit cards, paying all bills. I don’t even have online access to these accounts. The few assets I keep are a checking account with about $100 for emergencies and cash from my allowance. While I carry a credit card, she controls the statements. Any purchases need her approval first. She also claims any incoming money: if I win at the casino or receive tax refunds or holiday gifts, it all goes to her. Often, she is generous and gives me some back—for instance, this season when I won $1000 in fantasy football, she gave me $200 for my buy-in plus another $200 to keep, retaining the remaining $600.

This is a quick summary of our journey so far. Cramping two years into one post is tricky, but I’ll update this thread as we go and share any major events.

I’ve attached a photo from a recent discipline session.