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Long-term Lock-Up Dilemma

MsM has me in a stainless steel cage that basically can stay on forever, with removal happening mostly when She decides to milk me—a task She’s become very…

member_b195396d43 26 Aug 2026 #1

MsM has me in a stainless steel cage that basically can stay on forever, with removal happening mostly when She decides to milk me—a task She’s become very good at. I realize many here seek this dynamic, but I’ve reached the point where I’d actually love for Her to remove the device more often for play or even just a sensual wash before making me relock. Also, being quite small recently, I’m prone to slipping out from behind; while I don’t mind playing around in it, I do dislike that possibility. So, I’ve ordered an affordable HT3 nub because A its design offers better security and B it requires removal for cleaning a couple of times weekly. My plan is to suggest MsM handle this during our “bathnights,” so I still can’t touch while She does! The idea is that She unlocks and washes Her cock, I clean the cage, and we relock immediately. Posting this to show how thoughts change over time; wanting a semi-permanent lockup can be fun initially but, like anything else, it can become less exciting!