Sleeping in Chastity

I’ve worn chastity for three years now and I’m really happy with it, wanting to keep things as they are. However, I don’t sleep in my device; I remove it at night and put it back on when I wake up.

The pain is just too much for me despite trying hard. Do any of you have tips regarding chastity shorts or perhaps another type of device? I’m looking for something that prevents fiddling while still allowing spontaneous nocturnal erections.

I expect most people will suggest using a cage that stops erections before they become problematic and ensuring the base ring area is well moisturized. Taking it off every night seems unimaginable to me since keeping my ability to get hard is important for our relationship. However, I do wake up each morning because of the cage—not from pain, but frustration. Pain only occurs if I sleep without tights or panties and fail to moisturize properly. A custom-made cage made a big difference.

I struggled with sleeping due to being woken up multiple times each night until I started gradual accustomization. I began with a larger ring that didn't hurt and slowly reduced the size every few weeks until I could sleep through the night comfortably. Jumping straight into the smallest possible size was a huge failure.