Feeling Emasculation Through Chastity

Chastity is still new to us and we are navigating what it means for our relationship. One thing high on the list is the very positive feeling of being emasculated by chastity. As a person who is dominant professionally and in home life (until now), I find it empowering that my wife holds control over our sexual dynamic. This represents a definite improvement in our relationship. Is this normal? To clarify, this isn’t about me wanting to be a sissy; it’s a real sense that sexually, my wife’s pleasure is the only important thing in our sex life. It feels like a weight has been lifted from hoping every night for sex and avoiding the disappointment and resentment I used to feel when we didn’t have it, which then spilled over into our non-sexual relationship (on my side). I find myself at ease even when she says she doesn’t want a cuddle or touch in bed. I’ve told her that in the bedroom, she has total control, and she is embracing this without feeling guilty. I’m interested to hear others’ points of view as this site has been so useful on our journey so far.

Over the (mumblety mumble) years I have been active online, I have seen the "emasculation" topic come up frequently, but it's really hard to conceptualize what that means. Mrs. Edge and I do not have a BDSM or FLR type of relationship. Our dynamic is more like a queen/knight situation. I don't think anyone would consider a capable, devoted knight to be "emasculated" while serving his queen. My being locked gives her a feeling of power and confidence, and it keeps me totally focused on her pleasure. How does this oppose masculinity?