Female led relationships discussion

Hello. We may be new to this lifestyle, but I’ve been reading and learning a great deal. It seems like some men who stay locked up eventually become sissified; what percentage of the time does that occur? Was it an intentional goal for your man, or did it just happen gradually? I don’t think we’ll take that path because I can picture Andrew exactly as he is.

I’ve been pondering this (usually late at night when I wake up—those are always the best times to think since my mind wanders freely). I was wondering what our goal really is here. It feels like, to some extent, we’re trying to separate men from a part of their psyche—that specific aspect that defines “male-ness” (sorry, couldn’t find the better word at the moment). Am I overthinking this???

It’s just another late-night reflection. Lisa