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Hi everyone... I'm new to the site and just seeking some guidance. I've recently begun talking with a really nice woman who has a strong interest in male…

member_58461c6ad0 2 Sept 2026 #1

Hi everyone… I’m new to the site and just seeking some guidance. I’ve recently begun talking with a really nice woman who has a strong interest in male chastity. She’s a Domme, and after chatting a few times, she’s decided she’d love to lock me up. I actually own a device already. I purchased a CB 6000 S which I’ve used on occasion purely for experimentation, but honestly, I’ve always wanted to be properly locked by a more dominant woman. You probably get lots of posts like this, but I suppose I was hoping for advice on which device to choose… The lady I’m speaking with specifically wants metal chastity gear for me and I’ve found several options. This one is the most appealing so far.

Since I’m new… I want to start with a modest budget until I know I’m ready for more regular, long-term chastity where I’d be willing to spend more. Because she specifically wants metal, it rules out my CB6000 s which I’m actually quite okay with since I haven’t been able to get along with it so far. But I want to make a good impression on her and follow instructions. It’s my first real chance of speaking with a dominant woman and I’m hoping she sees potential in me. If anyone could offer some advice for a newcomer or suggest any good budget metal chastity devices, it would be much appreciated. Also, if it helps, size obviously matters so I have what I think is an average size. It’s cliché, but I’m more of a grower than a shower… Probably 4 inches soft… to 7 - 7.5 when hard. Would love to hear some ideas. PJ