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Greetings everyone. I recently shared an introduction in the foyer, so please do take a look. This place will be my little hobbit hole where I can reflect on all the happenings in my life concerning chastity, D/s, and everything else that matters to us. To set the stage with some background: I call my Wife “Master.” She isn’t a man—we both know this—but she loves being called Master, and it gives me a nice thrill because it hits a bit of a taboo spot for me. We’ve been together over five years now, spending almost all that time exploring bondage deeply. Usually, I was the one in charge, which I truly love; dominating my wife is one of my favorite things in the world. However, I had long fantasized about being dominated by a dominatrix myself. My wife was initially hesitant when I first mentioned it early on in our relationship, but eventually, after I explained how much it meant to me, she agreed to try it. We purchased a collar for me and a leash; she got herself a leather cat o’ nine, and we even found some clover-style nipple clamps for me. What surprised me was that she had also bought a new outfit specifically for this experience. We booked a hotel room, and when she emerged from the bathroom, she looked like a true dominatrix: wearing a leather corset with metal accents, thigh-high 8-inch PVC heels, and fishnet stockings. She held my collar in one hand and her whip in the other. It was like a dream come true for me. That entire evening was electric, and I rode that high wave of excitement for two weeks straight.

Right then and there, I brought up the idea of chastity. She didn’t know much about it and was somewhat surprised such things existed, but she was open to trying. I bought a CB-6000, and we used it during our first week together. It worked well enough, though I felt like it might fall off at any moment. We experimented with it on and off for several months, never leaving it on for more than a week at a time. Throughout this process, we grew to understand each other’s sexuality better; it was a wonderful learning curve.

We took a break from chastity afterward, sticking mostly to our regular bondage routines: she would crop me while I whipped her, and I’d be tied down and dominated as usual. The real change was seeing how much she enjoyed being dominant. I never expected her to take so well to the role of dominatrix, but she really did. She still likes being dominated herself, so I’d say we’re a switch couple for now.

Recently, we decided to buy a Mature Metal Queen’s Keep for longer-term wear. Depending on the situation, I now refer to my Wife as Master or Ma’am. We’ve taken significant steps in recent weeks, talking about it often and deciding to move toward a Female Led Relationship. Neither of us knows exactly how it will turn out, but that is our direction. The key is staying open with each other throughout this journey; if we need to pause or slow down, we will. Either way, I am excited.

I have been without an orgasm for 7 days now and experienced some TnD in there as well. I’ve been working hard to make life easy for my Master around the house. We are both in good spirits about this.