Chastity device reviews discussion

I’ve dabbled with chastity devices over the years, trying out most of what’s available. I’ve used all the plastic versions, quite a few steel ones, tried the exo belt, and even bought a TolliBoy. Every one had its issues, and none felt truly secure, including the TolliBoy. The longest I stayed locked up was 13 days in an inexpensive steel model that I adjusted so tightly it basically needed to be cut off. It’s been more than a year since I last considered chastity. Honestly, at my age (I’m around 45), sex isn’t on my mind much anymore. Recently, I bought one of these for the steal price of £25. The quality really impresses me; it is definitely stainless steel rather than coated zinc, which makes it hygienic. At first, I was a bit intimidated by putting it in because I hadn’t realized just how wide the urethral tube can be with a 10mm end ball. I gathered my courage to try fitting it, and let me tell you, it took some coaxing to get inside. This was only a trial fit. Honestly, it went in okay, but I was worried about leaving it there, so I removed it after just a few minutes. Eager to wear the cage again, I gave it a tug, which caused some bleeding. Needless to say, I haven’t worn it since then, though I’ve had no other issues. While wearing it, I quickly realized how severe this device is; trust me, you won’t pull out of it easily. The only weak spot seems to be the cheap padlock that comes with it. However, the hole for the lock likely accepts a larger diameter one. I’m not very interested in sex right now and miss being hornier, so I am starting to think about this lock again. I’m not too worried about the blood issue since I have a piercing and bled quite a bit when that was done. Urine is a great antiseptic anyway and heals things quickly. My question: has anyone else experienced similar bleeding? Has anyone kept wearing it despite it? I noticed no issues with urination afterward and haven’t had any problems since then at all. I think the initial bleed was just due to stretching my urethral tube so much on that first ever attempt. I’m sure if I left it in, my urine would have cleared up the bleeding soon enough. I am keen to try again as this happened a few weeks ago, but I don’t want to cause any real damage. Any advice is welcome.