Introductions discussion

Something surprising occurred today. I had resolved to get my hair cropped short for the season ahead. When I came back, she seemed displeased with the result. I inquired about her concern and learned something I hadn’t realized independently. It turns out that part of what she gets from my oral attention is the chance to seize my hair and push my face firmly against hers as much as she desires. With this new cut, that’s no longer possible because she can’t reach my ears anymore. We often overlook how our actions impact our keyholder; this was a prime example.